Is it commen for some of the hobbyist to act like little kids.....

I seem to think I'm a pretty down to earth person. I'm Respectful ..To the point ... Genuinely Kind and Considerate
I follow the golden rule ect...
I verify...I don't take dic pictures as a way to verify... I call your refrences and ask questions... I like to know who I'm interacting with and all that fun Jazz!
But there are two ladies that I refuse to see men after them and I've had 6 so called gentleman turn into complete ass holes when I've told them I do not want to accompany them....
Do other ladies in the area have the issue of men turning into complete pigs when denied companionship??

I don't visit often and I considered making Des Moines a regular location but I don't understand if this is just my interactions or if there are other gals with these interactions

Gentleman... when a provider says I'm sorry based of your refrences I don't feel comfortable seeing you I apologize. Thank you for reaching out.
You guys would understand right ??? I mean if there's reasonable reason behind that..

I don't wan hear a 'no' either, I have that at home! but I do respect the providers right to say no or not now or whatever! If ya have to whine your way into a date, you're already starting on the wrong foot for a fun time! I don't even wana see a date if she has a qualm with it!
What a way to get a bad reputation!

A provider has to feel safe and comfortable- that is an absolute right. A gentleman should be a gentleman and gracefully accept a no.

Right!! I back that up strongly and I'm not one to say no I'm just lazy and don't want to see you I'm the one to say No I don't want to see you because 2 of the 3 refrences you gave me offer Bareback services to Gentlemen on a Regular Bases doesn't make me feel comfortable in seeing them. One of them even voiced putting a bad review out for me...
I love a good time and down

The guys that throw a fit and tend to get disrespectful when they hear something or really anything that they don't like. No matter what it has to do with. I wouldn't consider them hobbyist. Those are the men that have no respect for the hobby, no respect for the respectable providers and to be honest have no respect for themselves. The men who are disrespectful cannot be grouped in with a hobbyist.The hobbyist that I'veseenand still see on a regular appreciate the hobby, still have fun with it, and have respect for the providers that show they respect themselves. The true hobbyist... They have a love for this. They can see the value in what we do. Like anyone does with whatever their hobby may be. I can't see too many hobbyist asking for a bareback service. We all know that is a HUGE NO in this world.But, when it comes to asking for references and checking with the providers they used. If anyone ever uses a reference that I won't consider... I tell them that I only accept references from respectable & reputable providers. And, I decide this based on several things... services they offer and their screening process, is she considered to be respected in the hobby. I don't ever want the potential client to ever think that a provider didn't have anything BUT good to say about him.

There really are some great guys in Des Moines (and the DM area)... I won't put a limit on the out of towners... lol. We all know it's been too long since the last time we met. But, now that I've started getting settled, it's time to play. I'm already over putting up the Christmas decorations... Let's do something else....

I stand by what I said earlier in that it is the absolute right of the provider to say no. However, playing devil’s advocate, many men on this board get told no too often at home and that is why they may be in the hobby. Just a little bit of perspective but I am in no way trying to justify bad behavior from a hobbyist.

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If this is a threAD?

You could of picked a better topic. You may have lost any interest by blasting the hands that feed you?

Ditto Ms Belle!

I tell them that I only accept references from respectable & reputable providers. And, I decide this based on several things... services they offer and their screening process, is she considered to be respected in the hobby. I don't ever want the potential client to ever think that a provider didn't have anything BUT good to say about him.

There really are some great guys in Des Moines (and the DM area)... I won't put a limit on the out of towners... lol. We all know it's been too long since the last time we met. But, now that I've started getting settled, it's time to play. I'm already over putting up the Christmas decorations... Let's do something else.... Originally Posted by Ms Belle

I appreciate that insight. I really do I do take screening really seriously
When I'm provided a refrence for a young lady who offers BB and Mainline drugs I cant find myself to over look those two factors enough to feel comfortable in seeing them.
I'm sure I can't be the only one that wouldn't want to see someone who's seen ladies like that.

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If this is a threAD?

You could of picked a better topic. You may have lost any interest by blasting the hands that feed you? Originally Posted by winn dixie

I have plenty of hands that feed me and I know the many that will continue to see me. Its not based off a thread but the blissful interactions we've had and the difference in my non mechanical ways of caring for a gentleman
I appreciate your 2Cents

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If this is a threAD?

You could of picked a better topic. You may have lost any interest by blasting the hands that feed you? Originally Posted by winn dixie

Looks like you just proved her point.

Looks like you just proved her point. Originally Posted by Whynothelpnow

Ahh no! Just years of seeing the same rants that never benefits the provider! Why cant the providers just accept that some are reprehensible and just move on. Or keep this never ending discussion in the powder room.
Its on the same level as the slobbiests that post about high prices and lack of tcb skills.

Instead of saying no because of the providers they used as references, just tell the truth that you do not have any free time this trip or you were not able to confirm with that provider, etc. If you let them down in a polite way, then confrontation may not occur.

I seem to think I'm a pretty down to earth person. I'm Respectful ..To the point ... Genuinely Kind and Considerate
I follow the golden rule ect...
I verify...I don't take dic pictures as a way to verify... I call your refrences and ask questions... I like to know who I'm interacting with and all that fun Jazz!
But there are two ladies that I refuse to see men after them and I've had 6 so called gentleman turn into complete ass holes when I've told them I do not want to accompany them....
Do other ladies in the area have the issue of men turning into complete pigs when denied companionship??

I don't visit often and I considered making Des Moines a regular location but I don't understand if this is just my interactions or if there are other gals with these interactions

Gentleman... when a provider says I'm sorry based of your refrences I don't feel comfortable seeing you I apologize. Thank you for reaching out.
You guys would understand right ??? I mean if there's reasonable reason behind that.. Originally Posted by JasminDelights

I’m a local provider in Des Moines and I used to get that a lot. But I think that now my bitchy reputation has spread amongst some of the guys here that I don’t put up with that shit. I’m very laid back, sweet as pie lol but when it comes to girls doing shit I don’t respect or or guys getting disrespectful, I get nasty lol. But because you’re a traveling girl you’re going to get that a lot because they don’t know you, so they will try to get away with it. Once you’ve visited a few times they’ll get used to you and it’ll pass. Des Moines has many great guys don’t let a few bad entitled assholes ruin it for the rest.