Yeh chizzy, originally they tried to set up a tryst messaging thing and it was a disaster so there isn’t one. Maybe there is the ability but we don’t check them lol. Great site, terrible message system. It’s more just an ad site. I know before it got bigger someone told me if I signed in every day my ad would be higher ranked but now that I pay (I think all the front page is probably paid) my ad would be front page regardless of whether I signed in or not. She cares enough to pay for an ad so she must be somewhat active.
Pittsburgh is really busy with great clients so I’m guessing her inbox is probably a mess. It really depends on how bad you want to see someone, plus it’s never a bad thing to say hi I’m following up on my last text in case one got buried. I’m sure guys are going to say that’s too much effort and that is their right but there are a lot of classy lurkers