NCNS Question

Winter Night's Avatar
What is the recourse for when a gent on here has you pay for a room, requests a video chat to see you nude prior to visit, then disappears on you? Sticks you with room costs and nothing to show for it.
Just a normal guy's Avatar
I hate that happen to you, try and find someone else who can come see you. You might have to adjust your rates, I know to me they are a little high for the first meeting.
If he is an eccie member or oh2 I would name him here to save others from the same BS. This not a one way street.
Winter Night's Avatar
Ammo2015
I am sorry but it appears from what I see on here that guy is just a looker with no reviews. Some guys like to talk a game and get off doing this kind of shit. Nothing you can really do but in the future research more see if they have reviews and ask for references you can verify.
Some guys think it is a game and do not realize your money is hard to come by and you have bills to pay.
Hopefully if he sees this while he is lurking he will know he is wrong and not do this again.
I will also send him a pm and let him know he should refund you the hotel cost at least.
Sorry my friend I know you like all of us are suffering in the covid times.
Winter Night's Avatar
Thanks Hun. I appreciate all the support. Really sucks.
And as for as my rates go, I know my worth, I observe other local provider rates (on and under the radar ladies), and I factor in risk for potential threats during an initial meet. Additionally, my initial meet rate ensures time wasters are properly filtered. After we have met and connect, my regulars get an absolutely favorable rate for the services I provide.
As for Ammo2015 get word out in the Ladies Room. Y'all need to be working together to shut guys like this out. Hell put an alert out on him, mostly do your research.....
EastBeast504's Avatar
I'm not siding with this Ammo2015 person, but maybe he got spooked for some strange reason? But then again, if you did end up doing a nude video chat with him, then he honestly had NO reason to be spooked. More than likely, he got off on the nude video for free and that was probably enough for him. But a guy like myself would only be wanting MORE. I know I don't have any reviews on here either because pretty much every provider I have been with was either off of BP before it was taken down or else STP. There have been been a few instances where I did indeed get spooked and not show up for a planned first time meet with a provider. And in at least 2 of those instances my gut feeling was indeed correct. Later found out by reading on here and on social media that the planned hotel to meet was busted by uncle LEO that night. Was it just a coincidence? Had I actually been chatting with uncle Leo instead? I guess I'll never know, all I know is I dodged a bullet.
Maybe but he could have at least text her to let her know he was scared or to meet somewhere to give her the $30 back on the room he had her get.
I do not buy his BS as I pm'd him to ask what happened and he would not answer. She is not a backpage or STG or Megapersonals girl. She has reviews on eccie and ourhome2.
Things like this is why we cannot have nice things.
Sorry to go off but tired of people running down SBC and the local ladies. I live here and know most of them and they are like us, just trying to survive in todays crazy world.
shaginla's Avatar
What Harley said