Outing sugar babies....

So just as the title suggests.... why do you believe it is right or wrong to share info about people who want to be sugar babies? I am a pro and occasionally a sugar baby. I started on seeking three years ago and somehow I’m a pro now. Long story. I understand reviews and I actually like them unlike many of my (coworkers) but not sure why anyone would think to write one on someone they are dating or sugaring.

When I pick a sugar daddy/momma to date it is completely separate from my ‘work’. I have not had a review posted by one...ever. The general idea is to have one special relationship with a sugar daddy/momma. So not sure the purpose of getting the word out. I mean it’s not acceptable to write reviews on people you meet up with on tinder etc. I have also been a sugar momma myself with an account and even if I wanted to I’m sure I wouldn’t be able to write a review.

Let’s chat 😁

If I found someone on SA and wanted to share their info it would only after I asked if they wanted me to. Seems to me there are pros on there using it as a marketing platform and some who are not pros. The only way to know if they want more publicity is to ask them.

I was seeing an SA girl. She didn’t want reviews. So I honored her request and didn’t review her. She needed help getting thru school. As far as I know, she’s moved on with her life.

Sounds like you guys use it for special relationships too. I like that you asked her first Monty. That’s a great idea. I had a guy asked me if I wanted to see more guys and he actually helped me by introducing me to indys.

Sounds like you guys use it for special relationships too. I like that you asked her first Monty. That’s a great idea. I had a guy asked me if I wanted to see more guys and he actually helped me by introducing me to indys. Originally Posted by klassygerl

Really no reason to post a review if the lady does not want one. Doing so will just cause her aggravation which in turn will most likely also loose you a SB. Some people just dont think before they act.

Really no reason to post a review if the lady does not want one. Doing so will just cause her aggravation which in turn will most likely also loose you a SB. Some people just dont think before they act. Originally Posted by sjomonty

Completely agree.

Had many SBs over the years. Wouldn’t in a million years review them without permission. An SD/SB relationship is different than an escort/client relationship. My SBs knew my real name, stayed at my house, and a couple even ended up being “normal” relationships.

Only way I’d review someone I met on SA is if they asked me to.

I would also ask if they were OK with that. Most of the college girls I've seen as SB really dont want a ton of guys calling them. Even if they're a "Pro", I still ask.

I think the differentiation is who exactly is a SB. On SA you have some SB's like you describe, that see one or two guys and that's it and then you also have the SB Pros who see anyone. The SB pros just use SA as their free advertising vehicle. Most of the reviews of SA girls here fall into the latter category - aka the SB pros. It is rare for a true SB to be reviewed here

Very good thread. Refreshing to see some rational thinking without the namecalling.

Very good thread. Refreshing to see some rational thinking without the namecalling. Originally Posted by Looker151

Dont be an asshole. (J/K)

So just as the title suggests.... why do you believe it is right or wrong to share info about people who want to be sugar babies? I am a pro and occasionally a sugar baby. I started on seeking three years ago and somehow I’m a pro now. Long story. I understand reviews and I actually like them unlike many of my (coworkers) but not sure why anyone would think to write one on someone they are dating or sugaring.

When I pick a sugar daddy/momma to date it is completely separate from my ‘work’. I have not had a review posted by one...ever. The general idea is to have one special relationship with a sugar daddy/momma. So not sure the purpose of getting the word out. I mean it’s not acceptable to write reviews on people you meet up with on tinder etc. I have also been a sugar momma myself with an account and even if I wanted to I’m sure I wouldn’t be able to write a review.

Let’s chat �� Originally Posted by klassygerl

It's a relevant issue with SA girls, and particularly "newbie" SA girls. SA attracts scores (Scores) of "civilian" girls/women who "heard" about the whole SD/SB sub-culture from their female friends and/or read about the sub-culture in women's magazines. They "hear" both that some guys will do the "dinner and companionship" paid-gigs and also (positively) that most SA guys "expect" PFP for cash....

Often these new "civilian" SA girls have No...Knowledge of "hobby" terms like "session" and "rate" and "incall" and often SA guys are Dumb....Enough to inquire about "BBBJ or CBJ?" and "Multiple pops...?" and "Do you host...?" and other dumb hobbyists questions. Remember SA bans guys for posting "hobby-talk" in PM's....

With a lot of SA girls the SA guys have to Lead Them To Water. And then Have Them Drink. A lot of the new SA girls would "prefer" to Get Paid Without Banging, and a certain percent will then "open their minds" to PFP. If these girls get "reviewed" (without their authorization) on Eccie or if they have guys (who they have not PM-interacted with) PMing and texting them with "When can I see you? What's your rate...?" messages then some of them just withdraw their SA profiles and disappear....

Again, SA attracts scores (Scores) of "civilian" women and girls. They are "generally" aware of the whole PFP culture. Many of them are "intrigued" with having a SD who will give them money, and different girls are different levels of "open-minded" to PFP. The fastest way to Alienate and Scare these girls from the whole SD/SB culture is to Broadcast their SA profiles on "hobby" sites like Eccie. SA has more "one week and GONE" newbie girls who don't last a month on that site, probably because of all the Weird....PM's they are receiving from "hobby" guys and/or the whole PFP world is not for them. And positively many newbie SA girls really "take to it" like a Horse To Water. Lead Them To Water. Then Have Them Drink.....

Eccie is good to flag all the Scams and "Street" menaces of SA girls. And if an SA girl wants more clients then briefly explain what any mention of her on Eccie will then entail. SA girls need to decide for themselves if they want to be one/two/three (or four or five) guy SB's or if they want to jump into the whole "broad-public arena" hobby-world of Scores of hobby-guys having their contact info and TMing them "When can we meet...?" and other charming entreaties....

Remember all during the ASPD/Indys and Eccie years there were many "UTR" providers who wanted NOTHING to do with the hobby boards. And many of them had as many clients as they wanted. That is the route that a lot of SA girls move into if they want more money. And none of that involves their contact info being posted on Eccie or Tryst or any other site, by their own SA girl-player choice. Really, the really strategic-thinking Pro Ho's on SA can get as many clients on SA as they want just from SA....

Guys should continue to flag the Explicit Scam and "Buy from my wish-list..." and "Show me what you got...." and "online only" and "No meeting due to COVID..." girls of SA. And all criminal, dangerous "street" girls as well. Try to determine if an SA girl really knows what it entails when she posts her contact intel on Eccie and other sites. It's a Fast....Move from "UTR" to broad-hobby-culture which they might not be prepared for and interested in....