open minded

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  • GP
  • 08-17-2011, 08:12 PM
I have seen the term "open minded" used in many ads. I am curious what people think it really means? I would like to hear perspectives from both sides.

Is it a way for a lady to bait a guy making him think he will get more that he actually will?

I saw a recent request from a guy stating he is looking for an "open minded" provider. Do guys think it is code for BBFS?

Comments please.
  • Sam54
  • 08-17-2011, 08:40 PM
It's not their (SP) "minds" that they (hobbiest) wants "opened"! "Open Minded" I would think usually means a provider that is open to "suggestions" that may or not be on her menu! But most likely it is a provider's "marketing" ploy to make the guys think they (SP) will do whatever you would like them to do! In any case, most ads are very generic with vague terms and sexually laden adjectives that leave you guessing WTH are they talking about.
Jon Colden's Avatar
I've seen it used often in Montreal. John, at www.eleganzaescorts.com, was very fond of it for a time.

I think it means non-judgmental, a willingness to accept another person's unique interests, fantasies, or desires.

For instance, if you wanted her to dance around the room with you, both of you wearing nothing but red clown shoes, while a Sousa march played, her reaction would be, "Sure! Why not? I don't think that's weird."

I do not think it is code for BBFS. Greek, maybe, but probably not BBFS.

http://www.perb.ca/vbulletin/archive...hp/t-8710.html

http://www.cacheo.com/node/100075

http://www.erotic-canada.com/forums/...ead.php?t=7184

It could also mean that the girl is a registered Democrat.
  • Chloe
  • 08-17-2011, 10:01 PM
I saw an agency once use it for some girls and not others, I connected it later to the gals who do greek.

I have used it in ads and I meant it in the actual meaning. I, as other ladies here, have unique ways of being open minded . . .throw your fantasies out there and it just may be on my list of (as stated by Jon Colden) "Sure! why not?"

Adj.1.open-minded - ready to entertain new ideas; "an open-minded curiosity"; "open-minded impartiality"broad-minded - inclined to respect views and beliefs that differ from your own; "a judge who is broad-minded but even-handed"
Jon Colden's Avatar
Chloe,

Great. So:

1. What do you think about the clown shoes idea? They're red, by the way. Clown shoes are almost ALWAYS red. But, you can pick your favorite Sousa march; I love them all.

and

2. You ARE a registered Democrat, right?



I saw an agency once use it for some girls and not others, I connected it later to the gals who do greek.

I have used it in ads and I meant it in the actual meaning. I, as other ladies here, have unique ways of being open minded . . .throw your fantasies out there and it just may be on my list of (as stated by Jon Colden) "Sure! why not?"

Adj.1.open-minded - ready to entertain new ideas; "an open-minded curiosity"; "open-minded impartiality"broad-minded - inclined to respect views and beliefs that differ from your own; "a judge who is broad-minded but even-handed" Originally Posted by Chloe
george79v's Avatar
My understanding is "Open Minded" means she's a GFE (which means she offers BBBJ, among possibly others like GREEK). Everything else is covered except BBBJ. This is what I have come to believe from hanging out at Toronto message board, TERB.CA .. hands down the most active escort review boards out there.
I saw an agency once use it for some girls and not others, I connected it later to the gals who do greek. Originally Posted by Chloe
This has always been my understanding also. It pretty much is used this way in Canada also to mean Greek is on her menu.
  • Chloe
  • 08-18-2011, 12:02 AM
Chloe,

Great. So:

1. What do you think about the clown shoes idea? They're red, by the way. Clown shoes are almost ALWAYS red. But, you can pick your favorite Sousa march; I love them all.

and

2. You ARE a registered Democrat, right?

Originally Posted by Jon Colden
Haha well Jon . . . if you only knew how vanilla your fetish was you'd be asking all of us "open minded" ladies to put on the democratic dancing clown parade!!!
The last woman I saw used the term 'open-minded' in an ad it meant that she was open to up-charging for just about everything and her mind was so open (read 'empty') that she didn't have a condom in her apartment.
I always took an "open-minded" provider as one who can easily give an unwavering response of "Yes, I could piss on you and then fuck you with my strap-on!" when asked for example.
yankee13's Avatar
over the years to me open minded was girls who would basically do greek or try new things gfe was not so inclined to try different things
  • LynnT
  • 08-18-2011, 08:15 AM
My view for open minded is just that open minded. Im with Webber.

I use it so I dont have to list specific services if you know what I mean.. Im open to things.. Im anti listing my exact services I do higher risk for trouble IMO.

Other ladies however who knows..
+1 for Chloe and Jon..

When I say I am open-minded it means I am open to new ideas. New experiences, however, that doesn't mean BBFS.

I think you'll find most ladies that are open-minded mean they are open to new fetishes, role-play, and things of that nature. Not just your average GFE appointment. They want to get a little kinkier... switch things up from vanilla to chocolate.
opened minded is too wide a question for me..if a person asks..
I respond.." I'm a ymmv kinda chic"...they curse at me. hangup..
and I add them to the champions list
offshoredrilling's Avatar
It is to vague a statement. As it can mean CBJ to BBG.

So for me its states willing to have some type of sex act. What that is, is still up in the air.