Deposit phobia

Is it normal for women to demand deposit? Sending money to a stranger just sounds foolish. Is this common practice? Most women I've dealt with are more concerned about their safety then some cash upfront. I do understand it helps thwart time waster. Any advice on if I should attempt to secure a meet with a deposit, thanks in advance.

If you like giving away money - then by all means send a deposit. Otherwise politely tell them no thank you and move on.

I was in Atlanta Easter weekend and had a well reviewed provider from TER want a deposit for a one hour appointment. I can entertain if this was a multi hour appointment and she had to clear her schedule. I contacted her through P411, I have over 40 okays.

Suffice to say I said no way on a deposit. Then she comes back the next day and said she’d waive the deposit this time. Told her no way I’d see her.

Deposit for one hour, no way. Multi hour I can entertain.

Nice. I need to put some reviews up myself. I'm skimming stg and its 99% bs I feel like I've waisted a collective 60 hours researching. I should just go back to ft trading.

Don't ever give a deposit, My first encounter ever I paid a well known provider before meeting and it worked out, days later she ghosted another guy after he paid up front.

Learned my lesson

Valuable lesson learned by someone else, lucky. I dont mind raining twenties when I walk through the door but no deposits. I understand some women require them to travel, thats fair. I won't be making any monetary deposits unless we are making multiple other deposits.

No deposit ever under any circumstances. When you hand off your cash by electronic means you lose all control over the situation the provider has absolutely no reason to do anything else for you she already has your money. MJ

If you are cruising STG, then you know all of the scammers want a picture and/or a deposit. No to both for me! I got took for $$$$$ by a well reviewed provider who said the only way she would see me was prepay since I had no experience. Lesson learned!

Nerp, never, no way!

If you have references and she is legit, there should be no reason for a deposit. There are a few unusual circumstances like an overnight or extended date. That type of last minute cancellation can ruin a ladies trip, especially if she’s low volume.

If you have references and she is legit, there should be no reason for a deposit. There are a few unusual circumstances like an overnight or extended date. That type of last minute cancellation can ruin a ladies trip, especially if she’s low volume. Originally Posted by Katerina Nash

Exactly!