Coming out of retirement.

My sad story:

I was caught "hobbying" about 5 and a half years ago. It ended in divorce. It was pretty brutal at the time, but I'm fine now.

Long and short.. It can happen. I was wounded, quit hobbying, moved to Florida. Hated it. Moved back and felt it was time for me to move on with my life. That was 4 years ago.

I was a very active hobbier in Dallas. I have about 75 reviews under a couple of handles (I can explain). But since logging back on, I've changed handles again, but the "companions" consider me a newbie with no reviews.

It's been about impossible to convince anyone I want to see that, I'm coming out of retirement. They all want references and my references are all gone.

I could pay for premium membership, take screen shots of my reviews, but I count every nickle and it's tough enough to scrape together enough to hobby.

Does anyone have any other suggestions or should I just "get the message" and hang it up for good?

Start with newbie friendly Providers and work your way up.

Can you request the Mods to reinstate your most recent account? I've seen requests like that before in the Questions for the Staff forum.

Some girls are newbie friendly that way you gain references

Thanks sweetie. Maybe I'm just way too particular in finding the right situation for me. Being divorced, I'm not afraid of providing some personal information, but it still has to be a good match. I guess that's why, even thought I wrote 65+ reviews, I kept seeing the same provider she left the hobby or service diminished. Then, it would take months to find someone else. I'm a loyalist and once I find the right person, I stay. I'll keep trying, but I'm losing faith and interest.

There are plenty of ladies here, it appears alot of them that dont even post are still around.

They may. I've only found one and she's not returning my PM. They also appear to change names and numbers everyday.

They may. I've only found one and she's not returning my PM. They also appear to change names and numbers everyday. Originally Posted by wizzzbang

They're on twitter cherry picking the simps to pay for their only fans pages, it's time for a purge and bring in some new young talent who wants to provide, trust me the simps will soon follow. Tricks run the hobby $

Can't you just go to an AMP? Tell them you've been there before. Trust me, you don't make good decisions in a state of desperation!

Well good luck I know it’s still some good girls out there with excellent service

find the newbie providers.

sorry, you're a nube in their eyes.

It's not that hard to get screened and be on your way OP..
Newbie Friendly
Lot of ladies who are so just dig in and get it on !

There are lots of newbie friendly ladies out there, I just don't know If eccie is the right place to find them anymore. Since things changed, it seems to be kind of a sausage fest. Tryst, private delights and ourhome2 will allow a lady to have a bio and list their screening information. Eros is another option.

I'm having no luck. Trust me, it won't break my heart just to stay retired. My money seems quite comfortable in my own pocket.

I hear model trains are a good hobby.