Ripped off at st james

was here Friday night with a buddy and saw some latino girl didnt ask her name was in the mood to get dances so we enter the room near the vending machine side of the club and start dancing. Hadnt seen her before, but i dont come here very often to far of a drive for me. Im a Mens Club guy,anyway didnt know what was going on and sit back down and my buddy is like dude what happened? HUH what you mean? You were gone like 15 minutes i said yes had some dances and gave her 300. He said that was to short for 300 bucks man how many songs were you back there for? 3? Maybe 4 or so i thought. The girl said it was like 7 -8 dances because the song kept changing then i relaized later after thinking about and just drinking water that night from after play golf all day it was like 3 songs but couldnt tell because the dj was mixing in 4-5 songs in every song and never knew what song started or finished. Hell i ddint even know what song it was if any that he played about the only i remebered the most was * welcome to the St james* coming from his mouth all night long start of the song during the and after the songs. WONT be back here for another 6 months or longer this i promise you now!

Sorry that happened, but second only to "Never take your credit card in the club", is ALWAYS count the number on dances out loud. Dancer math is always off and mysteriously always to their advantage.

If you did not negotiate before the dances started that is on you. And why the hell did you give her $300?

You regularly go to the Men's Club so $300 shouldn't be anything to you.

Always count the dances. I don't know know if the DJ was in collusion with her but if the dancer is stroking me by the end of the first song I tell her to get more aggressive or move on to another honey.

The dancer basically has to go with your count of the dances. I've never ripped off a dancer, even ones that deserve it. If you're a good regular a waitress will vouch for you. Last thing a manager wants is to call the cops into the establishment. So, never get shitfaced and stand your ground.

Not to make things worse, but even 7or 8 songs is still only $150.

That's an interesting point about ripping off a dancer. I haven't either, but they routinely try to "overcharge" me. Stand your ground is great advice. Mgrs know that dancers exaggerate dance counts. Oh...never take your CC in the club.

It was more of the fact that the songs were mixed in like i said and was hard to say what song was what and when it began or ended. The dj wasnt playing regular songs more like techno beats to whatever he felt like and you dont know what he's playing and if it is even a real song or something he made up because he has no idea wtf he is doing

Then pay what you think is right and tell her to call the manager if she doesn't like it.

But good heads up. Sounds like the DJ was in on it. They get tipped by the girls too. Some at the end of the night, some to get off stage duty, some get a blowjob in the booth if he's got something to exchange.

On a side note (sorry), there used to be a dancer at Playmates that would dance to "Freebird". The long version. Dancers would audibly grown when she performed. I had a dancer tell me up front it counted as two songs. The chick on stage had an act for the duration. Up and down the pole. Spinning at the top. Very enjoyable.

The girl said 7 or 8. Ok I heard 7 which means probably 4 in striper talk. If you think 3 or 4 then pay for 4 and call that extra 20 the cost of not having your shit together and knowing if it was 3 or 4 and don't repeat that mistake in the future.
But please, under no circumstances would you pay $300. Damn I don't go there anymore because I felt like I was wasting my$ on bbbj cim for $160.

We have a situation here in a couple of the San Antonio clubs where recently the djs have started playing shortened songs, like only the first two minutes of it and then immediately going to another song ..... it's like he had a stopwatch and at the two minute mark he changed songs ..... so when this cutie came over and asked for a dance I said sure, and at the end of the first song I stopped her and handed her a ten dollar bill ..... the look of shock on her face was priceless and I told her to go tell the dj that she could get the other ten dollars when he played the rest of the song ..... then I turned and left the club .....

00 That’s a great play. I have been going too the SJ a long time & know most of the day waitresses & bar tenders. My favorite regular was off last time I was in and wanted too try out some new talent, a young stacked blonde looked appealing (looks can be deceiving). Go back for a test drive, danced consisted of her rocking back & forth in my lap while leaning forward and basically standing at arms length with her hands on my knees when facing me. Cut her off after & paid her for the two air dances I got, she ask wasn’t I going too tip her. I guess I should have checked for balls because she must have a pair for asking for a tip on air dances.

Ha!!! Boss move "OO" !! That's how you do it.