I’m not sure if I’m understanding the question, but correct me if I’m wrong. Are you saying that you text a provider and you don’t get a response a week or sometimes up to a month later?
If so, that’s pretty common. Sometimes they get a shit load of messages and don’t have time to sift through them.
In the past, I’ve texted providers to set up a date and don’t hear back until a day or 2 later. Sometimes never. It happens quite often and I wouldn’t take it personally.
Perhaps you’re contacting the wrong providers. There are those who consider it supplemental income; and those who consider it a career. Do your research.
I agree with pth, a couple that tell me that we overwhelm them with texts at times...whether it's a new lady, an utr lady and then I was told we tend to all clamor for a noon time delight...
In my opinion I don't think you are contacting the wrong providers . A lot of providers have a lot of things going on since Covid and obstacles to work around . As I work closely with several providers , one just had a parent pass away , one is dealing with her kids being home from school due to covid, one has a tummy bug . Providers that have another job and families keep two phones to keep it separate so they don't know that you"re reaching out . People never know what goes on behind closed doors so just be patient they will get back to you . If you are looking for available now tryst has a green light for ones that are available . I also get completely overwhelmed with text and messages and sometimes don't see them because so many come in
I appreciate all the help
and advise it makes me feel better knowing that this seems to be normal. I did try to text a better quality lady
Lauren thanks for your support
and stateing they where just
probably busy with their personal life
I am not mad at any one of them I just wanted to know
I text the provider couple of times and if they don’t response I consider it is their loss. There is always another one IMO. I always have some that I can reach out to when needed.
Yes Hot Summer you do
And I think you know how much I love seeing you
You do respond to me every time plus you respect my busy life you are very special to me and I have plans to treat you better
I will be finishing up next week over by little rock then hopefully I can get sent closer to you