Appetite????

When I first began hobbying, my sexual appetite was pretty vanilla. Now it varies. Some days I may feel frisky and want greek, others not so much. It wasn't until I met one provider that I had ever experienced a prostate massage. Now I sort of like it, but only on rare occasion. I used to be pretty inexperienced at DATY, now I sort of consider myself a pro. I have since introduced myself to the wonders of Viagra. Rough sex, ass slapping and pulling hair was unheard of. Now I find it fun on occasion as long as it is with a provider who enjoys it and we understand each other. Standing 69, thanks Montana. Duo's..... NEVER.... now I have a few under my belt. When I started hobbying, I looked at the list of acronyms and did not know what most of them were. Now I think it is safe to say that I have pretty much done most of them. I am still probably considered pretty vanilla if you asked any of my providers, but I think I have expanded my horizons considerably.

How has your sexual appetite changed due to hobbying?

Have you brought any of your new found knowledge/moves home to the SO? Did they notice?

What more would you like to learn or do?

I definitely don't feel as inhibited, now that what I once thought was kinky is actually pretty tame. I've only been doing this just over a year, but have learned so much it's worth the price of admission(so to say). I still like "vanilla" sex but will definitely broaden my horizons when the opportunity comes along.

My sexual appetite did not change. [PRIVATE]I just found that providers have fewer issues than the women I was meeting in the real world. But the issues providers have keep me from taking it that one final step. So single and happy. Even as my buddy's joke I'm married to three hookers. But the divorce is so much cheaper. If ether wants out, just stop calling and answering the phone. [/PRIVATE deleted that last "]". what the hell nothing to lose.

If you're referring to my appetite as my "taste in activities"....I don't think my appetite has changed much. Greek does not turn me on that much, but I bet if the right provider "wanted it" and asked me, I might indulge, but that's probably not going to happen right? I like DATY, but never met a provider that really seemed to want it and I think it just doesn't add enough to the visit versus the risks, so I usually just keep the provider zoned in on my needs. I did think about DATO with Taylor, but didn't.

I do like to hear dirty talk more these days (I love to hear it from the provider) and I do indulge in a bit of ass slapping. Nothing very rough though.

I imagine I might become more aggressive in my tastes as anything can get old. Even sex the same way, over and over.

I hope to grow out of it before I get too far into needing rough sex or bizarre sex to get turned on. But, we'll see, my needs don't seem to be waning at all.