Fine since I share my whole lifestory on here. How about once and for all I show with you the entire Jada story how it happened chronologically, so now you can all see it now and understand why I obsess. I have idyllic memory with dates. Before I only told you bits and pieces. Here goes:
8/2019 - I first discover the other site (USASexGuide) and join to post reviews on providers I am seeing.
9/2019 - I make a post on the other site inquiring about any good providers in Schenectady, as I was in the same predicament then as now with looking for good provider. Several members recommend UTR Jada and gave her number.
10/24/2019 - I decide to take their advice and contact Jada. She quickly responds and we meet that very night for outcall to my apartment (first time ever doing an outcall, she stated she cant do incalls). So she takes an uber to my apartment, we engage in CFS and good time. I liked her, thought she was a sweetheart, like rest of you. I offer to give her ride home to be nice, since she only lived 2 miles from me.
11/6/2019 - I see Jada for second time outcall at my apartment, this time I pick her up and bring her back in my car. My first time in my life I have a girl in my car and I feel like I was at top of the world, like I was a teenager with his first girlfriend. We were making out at red lights, etc. We both forgot condoms and she agrees to BBFS. Have great time with her and she acts like a sweetheart.
11/20/2019 - I see Jada for third time outcall to my apartment, gave her ride there and back. Since I was having such a great time seeing her, I increased my time from hh to one hour with her. We did BBFS, then spent the remaining 45 minutes cuddling naked in bed under the covers together. It was at this time, I first developed romantic feelings for her. It was the cuddling rather than the sex that caused this infatuation. Also she told me I could text her between sessions to say hi, which I began doing.
12/4/2019 - I see Jada for fourth time, one hour again, exact same repeat as last time, great time, she is very nice
12/10/2019 - Jada's phone stopped recieving my messages (she later told me her phone broke). I flip out thinking she blocked me for no reason and go crazy. I am up all night crying and had to call Ellis Hospital Crisis number and talk to social worker to calm down
12/11/2019 - I see girl #16, from Motel 6 on Central Ave for outcall to my apartment. I did this cuz I felt if I saw a different girl for outcall, who I gave rides to in my car, I could stop obsessing on Jada. It helped somewhat, but I did not like girl #16, so after dropping her back off at motel, I blocked her number and wrote her off.
12/15/2019 - Jada texts me on texting app that her phone broke, so all is good with us
12/17/2019 - I see the movie Aeronauts at Saratoga Springs movie theater featuring an 1800s couple in a romantic balloon ride. Throughout the entire movie, I fantaze, its me and jada on the balloon ride
12/19/2019 - The first time problems began. I am all set to do outcall with Jada and I arrive at her apartment and she does not come out or answer phone. Me being new at the hobby and naive, I dont know the proper ettiquite, so I get out of my car and knock on her door and can see and hear people inside with music. I get upset and drive off. I go see Saratoga Sky Jen instead that night for sex to help me calm down.
12/20/2019 - Upset over Jada still, I write my first bad review on her on other site, just being honest about her blowing me off. Jada then suddenly texts me, claiming her father had a medical emergency the night before and she had to rush to hospital and left her phone at her place, her kids were there alone when I knocked and told not to answer door. At first I believed story, but find it fishy, since she lies so much.
Later that day, Jada found my bad review and went balastic at me. I then finally tell Jada how I feel, that I like her and want to be her boyfriend. I am then up all night crying and again had to call Ellis Hospital Crisis Unit to calm down. I was crying thinking I lost Jada cuz of my posts and finally calm down when Jada agrees to reschedule
I contacted A2 on the other site asking to delete the bad jada reviews I left and he refused. I then attempted to retract the reviews by claiming it was Harley Quinn Jade I was referring to who blew me off and I got her mixed with up Jada cuz of their similar names.
12/22/2019 - I see Jada for our rescheduled outcall. When I pick her, she has it out with me and is yelling at me in a violent manner about how I acted. I almost kicked her right out of my car on Van Vranken Ave because I did not want to be verbally assaulted, but decided to give her chance. She calmed down and we do usual one hour outcall at my apartment. I then ask her to be my girlfriend and she tells me, no. I accept it well and agree to see her as just a client
12/24/2019 - When vaccuming out my car, at carwash, I discover Jada had dropped her debit card in my car underneath my seat. I text her asking what I should do and she is vague and blows me off.
Christmas Day 2019 - Not knowing what to do since she ignored my texts, I drop off her debit card at her mailbox in an envelope. She later tells me that she cancelled that card a long time ago cuz it was missing
I take a break from seeing Jada for a few weeks cuz of this stuff but resume contact in January 2020. Also at this point, all romantic feelings I had for her ended. I just wanted to continue to see her as a client like the rest of you.
1/15/2020 - Final time I see Jada for outcall. She is very nice and forgiving for the earlier stuff and we do the usual one hour, but she insists I use condom and no more BBFS, which I agree to. Calm before the storm with her being nice
1/19/2020 - Jada texts me asking if I can pay her cable bill of $312, agreeing to two free sessions if I say yes. This is my biggest regret and something I wish I had never done, this is what caused the problem with her and all of this drama
1/26/2020 - Jada texts me needing a ride to urgent care cuz she is sick with possible flu. I gladly give her ride to and from and she is very nice and thankful
1/29/2020 - Jada texts me asking for $40 for her tamaful she cant afford. I give her the $40, raising her debt to me to $352
2/5/2020 - We set up our next outcall, but Jada suddenly texts me that her son is sick and she needs to cancel. I instead see Jessica in Mont Pleasant for outcall to my apartment, so I can still get laid that night.
I text Jada about rescheduling and she ghosts me. I become very anxious because I feel she ripped me off and wanted my money back or the two free promised sessions. Then she becomes mean telling me she doesnt want to see me anymore. I dont know what to do. Desperate, I contact her mother explaining the situation. I realize now I was wrong for that, but my autism sometimes causes me to make poor decisions
2/20/2020 - at about 2:45 PM, while I was at work, Jada calls me and violently threatens to smash my windows in retaliation for texting her mother. I tell her never to contact me and block her number. I am terrified and go home from work scared, everytime a car pulled in my apartment complex parking lot that night, I was scared she was true to her threat.
3/9/2020 - In response to several good reviews on Jada, I post bad reviews and out her on this site. I did that cuz I was very mad about losing my hard earned money to her. I realize now I was wrong for the outing her part
3/10/2020 - at about 8 AM, Jada calls me on an unlisted number and threatens to send people to my apartment to physically hurt me (in retaliation for outing her) and then has her boyfriend threaten me also. I was very shook up and had my tax appointment that morning (a week before everything closed by covid). The tax preparer saw how shook up I was, so I told him about the situation (but of course left out that part that she was an escort), and he wrote down the number of adult protective services on my tax envelope, trying to help me. I was reminded this year again when I did my taxes, when I had to bring last years taxes and saw his writing on the envelope.
After that, no communication with Jada whatsoever.
I hope this clairifies once and for all, what happened and why i have held this grudge for so long.