A survey of sorts

There's been a ton of complaining on how clients are treated in terms of communication lately. I've talked to providers who complain their "phone blows up" all the time (why you'd complain about more calls I have no idea), and some that just don't think folks are complaining. So, I thought I'd post for some anecdotal data... FROM GUYS

So... GUYS...

1) How many ladies do you have to contact on average (from any source), before you get a reply? How many do you contact versus how many reply eventually?

2) How long does a reply take, on average, when you get one? (timeliness issue)

3) Whats the longest you've had from the time you contact a provider, until they contact you back to see if you want to hang out? (timeliness issue)

4) If you do get a reply, how long does conversation to hang out take on average? (length of setup time issues)

5) Do you regularly find providers tell you they are "available now" only to try to see if you want to hang out hours later? (timeliness issues)

6) Do you often have to clarify exactly what a girl is saying because she uses one word answers, abbreviations, or doesn't seem to know what you are talking about? (communication understanding issues)

The questions are just thought stimulators, although in my brief talks with some of you, these are the things I hear, read, see the most.

NOTE: This is NOT meant a provider excuse thread for why there are communication issues, this is a thread for folks who are seeking company to discuss their frustrations with how things are being done. It's different than it was pre-COVID, and some argue getting worse. Hopefully, this is informative so everyone benefits, and girls listen to what their base is saying.

It is also not meant to attack any one person. You can keep it general, I tried to.

Keep it informative

I'll start.

1 - I call it the rule of 8, find 8 girls to message, and maybe you'll get one to reply back. That's recent posting girls, not just numbers. My record is 15.

2. When I get a reply, it takes about a half hour most of the time.

3. I texted a girl on Monday, today I got a message asking if I was ready to meet. Out of the blue, after 5 days. LOL.

4. I had a girl say today she was available now, which after a two hour back and forth, that was like pulling teeth, she told me she was available four hours from that time. Now is not 6 hours.

5. see above.

6. All. The. Time. I've learned not to ask compound questions, or you just get a "ya" and have to ask "ya what?" or I get some one word abbreviated text response that I have to figure out from no context. Using complete sentences seems... too much.

CS relations have been a major complaint lately. Some of it is the nature of things, some of it is the changes after COVID and new provides who are more "hit and quit" than in for bizness, but some of it is providers who don't understand how to control their communication flow, and end up leaving opportunities on the table.

That's my response

Happy Friday!

Communication sucks on both ends.
Guys take notes
Females lol good luck and I am here if any females are needing to fix their life and need lessons of how to communicate and treat a man. Really thought it was common sense but after this thread I am apparently wrong…

Men
Be clean
Be on time
Do not over stay your welcome because we dont use a timer
Accept a drink but only one (fyi I love vodka as gifts just because)
Don’t arrive drunk, stress or high then be mad that ur buddy isn't working. It is what it is.
Take ur shoes off when you walk in the door because its fucking polite
Wash your hands
Shave or trim ur buddy, no one wants hair in their mouth. (Should be common sense)
Use mouth wash regardless if theres kissing or not
If you just got off work ask to use the shower. Clean sex is always good sex
Stop asking for bb the balloon saves lives
Reply back
Avoid no shows and just tell her you are not interested
Be respectful
If theres pretty towels that look like they are for decor dont touch them
Stop tolerating girls to cause you to be a asshole such as not replying till days later, not being on time, making you uncomfortable etc. just block them. Your not looking for a wifey. Theres a few good females out there like myself that will treat you right with out the fucking headache and run around.
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