strip clubs

I'm planning on going to a strip club for the first time in my life next week. I have a lot of questions about etiquette and costs. Stuff like that. The club I am going to will probably be the The Flamingo Club in Lawrence. Please send me a PM if you are willing to answer some questions.

You can also look at the strip club section - lots of dirty bird reviews there.

You can also look at the strip club section - lots of dirty bird reviews there. Originally Posted by JackJohnson

i've already done that but without premium access it doesn't answer any of my questions

No need for PMs. Put it out here for all to see. Maybe someone else has the same questions. The ladies at strip clubs are dancers so keep that in mind. When you are approached, feel free to ask what the rules are before you go to a private dance. They will tell you if it's full contact allowed or no touching. I'd advise heading into it with no expectations of any extras. The golden days of sex in club are long gone so forget that idea. Could it happen? Sure. Likely to happen, not around here. Be kind and have fun. You will figure it out.

The biggest thing is expected prices of things. (dances, vip, booze compared to a bar, ect...)

also expected differences between day shift and night shift. When the shifts change over. Is one shift easier to talk to or less tempermental usually. Stuff like that.

I guess that information would be a good place to start.

I think dances at the bird are $20 once you buy the VIP pass for ten bucks I think it was. Drink prices are not bad. I haven't been pressured to buy drinks for the ladies around here like some places I've been. It's been up to me to offer that which I like.

I've had decent luck at the bird on day shift. Not as many dancers but if you can pull them away from their regulars you can have a good time. I really like whispers too. Good drink prices and good talent there. Nope day shift though. No cover charge if you get there early. I guess a good thing about Lawrence is there's more than one club so if one sucks you can try another. Personally, I don't do the crazy $$$ vip private rooms unless I know for sure it will be worth it. Note it's usually not.

i've already done that but without premium access it doesn't answer any of my questions Originally Posted by sinyong

Might I suggest getting premium access? I dunno, just a thought.

It’s probably been 10 years since I did the clubs up north. With that said, I seem to recall Topeka was where you went if you had any hope of things happening, while Lawrence was more for less action but nice looking ladies. I was a big fan of Paradise Saloon because dances were cheap and you could be handsie.

I haven't been to the club in Lawrence you mentioned but, the 'general' etiquette is can grab tits and ass. If the girl doesn't like what you are doing, they will move your hand. For 'most' private dances it's $20 per, but like others have mentioned sometimes it decreases if you pay the lap dance room cover.

Some clubs have different levels, or a special VIP room. These vary in cost increase and can even vary by girl.

The more you spend, usually means that the girl is willing to do a little more, but each girl is different.

Personally, I like to watch how they interact when you go up to the rail. If they don't even touch you, that gives me an idea of what I might get in the VIP room. If they give me a lot of attention, especially when I give a couple of dollars, that's a nice indicator as well.

You can always ask them to if you aren't sure, 'what can I do?' 'what does the VIP room give me?' etc.

Have fun!