Do you like it when

Do you guys like it when a lady you have seen sends you unsolicited PMs asking if you wanna meet?

Do you ladies think of that as crossing a boundary?

Just curious. I like it. Even though I know it is a ploy for business, it at least makes me think the lady likes me enough to want to see me again.

Just curious about other folks' perception.

[PRIVATE]What they like and want is the $$$ you have in your wallett[/PRIVATE]

Barney, Barney,this is a tounge in cheek post right?

I have no problems with pms, emails or txt, especially if she is letting me know about specials for regulars. My old atf used to this when things were slow. It usually worked out pretty good for both of us.

I don't mind it at all, good communication can never hurt along with friendliness! Of course we all, gentlemen included, should respect any boundaries as far as phone calls and texts depending on the situation.

Interesting thread

Interesting thread
Ill continue to follow

It doesn't bother me. I would like to know if/when a lady I enjoyed some time with was doing a doubles, offering a special etc. Pretty much anything within ECCIE is fair game as far as I'm concerned. I would have a problem if it became a weekly or daily occurrence though! Like I said, as long as it is just through the website; I don't want anyone texting me or calling me, even on a hobby phone.

Aljan, it was a serious inquiry and I am thankful for the thoughtful replies. I'm just insecure enough to want to feel wanted, even if my good friend Benjamin Franklin has to accompany me.

I will ad this, there is something fun about getting a message saying let's hook up, even if money is involved as you pointed out Barneyrubble. For me it's not an insecurity issue, but rather a nice break from the routine of receiving on average 15 e-mails per day, all business/work related!!! It's that nice break from reality which can cheer up my day.

I actually like getting PM's from providers. It's always nice to have a provider send you a "Thanks for seeing me yesterday, I had a great time" PM.

My insecurity with young ladies seems to increase with every birthday I have. LOL. Ladies near my age? Hell, my ego is such that they are damn lucky to be with me. LMAO.

No problem, and no bounderies

much prefer a PM than a text/phone call

I would not like to get a text or a phone call but a PM would be cool with me. Like the other guys said, it would make me feel good that they were thinking of me.

No phone calls, text messages or sex photos. PM's are OK on ECCIE or Yahoo Messenger.