This may get me in trouble for reopening a discussion that has been closed but I think that everybody missed what I think was a major point in his original post.
He said "we had some wonderful bbfs but nothing she promised" Now I'm not sure what he meant by that or some of the other stuff he posted as his posts are hard to read because of the lack of caps and puncuation, but that is pretty clear.
Both providers and hobbiests (sic) should be aware of what went on here...
This is the thread:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=279442