Sorta new - Sorta not typical?

Hey there.

So I’ve dabbled lightly in the hobby on and off for a little over 6 years. When I say lightly, like a couple visits a year. Used to have an account here under MarcusMuskrat but had it linked to a one off email address I no longer can remember. So I signed up again not too long ago.

Recently started becoming more active and I am finding I have a bit of a Non-normal approach. I don’t like constantly trying to see someone different. It’s a pain going through all the set up. Finding, verifying she is okay, she verifying I’m okay, nervousness around the first visit because even with all the checking you just never know.

I like to find a provider establish a regular meeting. Let her get to know me(pretty normal close 50s white dude), get to know her(usually like the non-white or white and tattooed and pierced) and then try different things with her. Over the past year I’ve seen the same provider once every week to two weeks and thoroughly enjoyed it. She got out of the business and now it’s time to find someone new.

I get the feeling based on the conversation and reviewers I read that while perhaps not ‘strange’ my preference of seeing a single provider on the regular isn’t exactly typical. But as I stated in the beginning…I’m not exactly an expert in this area either. Kinda curious if I’m just being naive and others are similar?

There are quite a few providers that do like long term arrangements. The only concern that some providers have about these is that they can turn into control issue or stalking issue with some. Everything is fine the first 5 or 10 visits then the client kinda turns into demanding time or not wanting the provider to see others. They try and turn it into a real world boyfriend girlfriend thing.

After bad luck with others I started seeing the same provider on a regular basis. She kind of caused me stress and drama but was a good hook up. Unfortunately she ended up moving in with me.

Yeah, I can see where that might be a problem. For me it’s purely the fact that I have a very short window of time to see someone and having to go through the hassle of a screening and/or verification process every other week for my hour of fun just doesn’t appeal.

That said, given the exit of my standing provider from the biz, I’ve kinda had to do it anyway. Which is why I’ve become more active here. Hoping it becomes easier to screen with some.

I am on P411, and have enough OKs that finding someone new on there isn't usually too difficult.

I’ve never tried P411. What is its big advantage? I assume a higher class of provider?

I think you're wise to stay with a certain provider. For all the reasons you stated and so long as the arrangement and frequency is mutually agreeable.

I’ve never tried P411. What is its big advantage? I assume a higher class of provider? Originally Posted by Samsonite0245

Basically a verification service both sides of the transaction.