So gentlemen and Ladies
Do you enjoy the hobby? Is it everything you want, and then some. Or if you could turn back the clock and say hell naw, that was not for me.
I enjoy it alot, it has its up and downs. But for the most part i have met some wacky people that really made me enjoy this hobby.
Your thoughts?
- MrGiz
- 03-11-2010, 08:04 PM

Sorry, Lisa.... I couldn't resist!! YES , I do!!
LMAO!!! its cool
However it is some men out there that openly post, that they regret the hobby..
Not as much as I used to, but I haven't given up on it either. I've gone from 2-3 sessions a week to 1 or 2 a month at best. It seems like I spend more time trying to find out who's legit (no fake pics/shitty attitudes etc) than actually hobbying lately. When I find someone I feel comfortable with, I tend to see them regularly. In the years I've been around the scene, I've taken a couple of breaks when I was in civilian relationships, and though that isn't the case now I may take some time away just to recharge my batteries.
I love it{lol}
I am an "addictive" type personality..I am addicted to shopping{shoes especially}/the internet/colas/cheetos&froot loops/and even sex!
I have had a hell of a ride for the past 10 years of providing...met alot of cool guys & gals.....experienced alot of new exciting sexual things....visited some really cool places....made ALOT of moolah....and basically have enjoyed expressing myself thru my work.
I know I will have to "quit" one day,but I am having WAY too much fun to do it any time soon{lol}!!!
The only real regret I have is that there were not boards like this many, many years ago and having to settle—on more than one occasion—for less than acceptable service: robbed more than once also. Makes life interesting though. [LOL]
Yes! One day I'll put my experiences that I have saved up to the page. It keeps my life interesting. I wonder why more girls my age don't indulge a few times a month. I mean, why go through schooling broke and struggling if you're hooking up with the randoms anyway? At least you'll walk away from good (and awful) sex with money in your pocket.
I'll be ok with one day making an "honest" living. For now, I'm having fun and enjoying life. I work when I want to, and that's that!
There are occasional thoughts of I shouldn't have done that, but they pass. More so when I look at the totality of monies spent over the years. It never seems as much as it really was/is.
And there is often the fear of the unknown aspect of it all, but I think that plays a little into the appeal. Well reviewed or not, you never know, which in some ways add to the experience.
The only real regret I have is that there were not boards like this many, many years ago and having to settle—on more than one occasion—for less than acceptable service: robbed more than once also. Makes life interesting though. [LOL]
Originally Posted by I B Hankering
That is my issue. I was in the hobby twenty or more years too early and experienced a really low batting average with all of the avenues I tried in the cities I visited - stippers, street walkers, bar hookers and agency girls. The only place I was assured a pretty great time was in London at Miranda's or Brown's, (because I heavily tipped the Matre' D'). Since discovering ASPD and now ECCIE, I don't have to deal with questionable providers in the States unless I'm in the mood to TOFTT. If the internet hobby had only been around much earlier in my life....
MM
THAT does'nt really leave time for the rest of us lol!! Plus i cant find a certain somebody that i realy want to get ahold of'' I miss our lunch convos damit lol!! NB call me! annie
what was the question?
Hell yea I love this hobby!! Within the first month of joining, I fulfilled that one certain sexual fantasy that without the Hobby, I never would have done it.
My only regret is that i did not discover this Hobby sooner. It would of saved me a helluva alot of time, money and heartache!
Absofuckinlutely! if I could do it all over again, I would. No regrets.
It has its ups and downs. Personally, I could turn my back and walk away tomorrow if I wanted to, and never look back....then again, I have met some really nice people on both sides through this, and if it wernt for the hobby I never would have met them.
I really try not to give this much thought these days.
Cheers
I love it.... I've met some amazing people (providers & dogs) I've had some great experiences, and then some bad ones too. Overall I would do it again.