Encounter: TS Sonia - Pick One and She's Done

Date: Mid-Feb 2022
Name: TS Sonia
User ID:: dfwtsfan
Phone: 214-428-9626
Email Address: -
URL / Website: https://transx.com.listcrawler.eu/po...allas/70823005
City: Dallas
State: Texas
Address: Spring Valley & Montfort
Activities: BBBJ (on her), horrible HJ (on me)
Hair Length and Color: Long, Straight, Black
Age: 26
Smoking Status: I Couldn't Tell
Ethnic Background: Hispanic
Physical Description: 130, 5'6", DD's, brown nipples, 5"-6" cock that gets and stays hard
Recommendation: No

You paid $200 to suck some dudes cock?

Not my thing. But to each his own.

You paid $200 to suck some dudes cock? Originally Posted by Eliot_Spitzer

I walked around for a couple of minutes thinking about your baiting post and what I should do. It clearly comes down to 1 of 3 choices - say "yes", don't reply, or defend. The shortest and easiest choice with your baited post, would be not to post anything. Doing that though, might cause you and others like you, to believe your post was correct and all TS's need to be viewed as "dudes", or I'm a coward and won't standup for the TG community or my beliefs, or no response means my TS beliefs are too weak too defend attacks from bullies like yourself. However, I'm highly against all forms of intolerance, bullying, unjustified provocation, hate, and oppression, and your post implies one or more of those is going on within your mind. I thought ECCIE was a community of tolerance for all gender types.

The alarming part of your comment that jumps out to me, is the part that could be easily seen as quite offensive to the entire transgender community, and by those who support them, and that's the word "dudes", which implies men. Transgenders don't see themselves as dudes/men, and it's very important to many they are no longer viewed as either, and saying otherwise to them, or about them, is often viewed as extremely offensive.

To become a transgender, and remain one, they have to go through more misery and suffering than most people could fathom. Family turning their back on them, friends too, incredible financial hardships transitioning and maintaining that lifestyle, lower income jobs for most, sticking with that and not going back to what they were, takes more bravery, money and courage than most people could imagine. Over the past 20 years I've heard more in-depth stories from them about that, along with them going through beatings, abuse, being mistreated, ongoing hardships, and things most people can't even imagine. Those things that would breakdown most people into saying "I can't do this anymore, becoming a TS was a bad decision, I'm going back to the way I was." I'm an admirer of all forms of bravery and courage, especially when the continuation of that goes extremely beyond what the typical person could endure, and against the norms of societies traditional views.

Your choice of the word "dudes" implies you don't want to comply with their simple wish and request to no longer be viewed as men. Why would you want to do something that wrong, that offensive, and could be viewed as hateful to them? What have they done to you? That one word you chose to post says a lot about you and you accepting their place in our society. I'm struggling to get past that and here's why. "Dudes" implies a complete intolerance of transgenders as being viewed as a different gender in our society, which is what they want to be perceived as in our society. What's your problem with that?

Look at my avatar. That's a smoking hot TS porn star with a cock. So her and others like her have a cock, so what, how is that hurting and offending your life? Do you think with a face like that she views herself as a man? Her and many others like her, along with those attracted to them, see them as girls with a cock. Now I'm guessing you don't, and you only see 2 genders, male or female. Well guess what, many of us that are different than you see 3 genders. Now try to wrap your head around this, while it hopefully helps you understand why some us like wrapping our mouth around it.

Some men have a fascination and attraction to cock (now hold that next thought), but other than just the cock, find every other major and minute aspect of a male to be completely disgusting from the standpoint of it having any attraction or appeal. The flipside you might not understand about some of us, we crave every aspect about females except their vagina. Here's what you probably have a hard time wrapping your mind around, neither traditional male nor traditional female appeals to me, and likely some like me, the proper mix of the two I find incredibly attractive and appealing. It might be something you find disgusting, or can't understand, and it's because your mind sees something different as appealing to you, and you're incapable of picturing anything else. We don't all have to think like you, or be attracted to what you think makes sense. We see a 3rd option, and we see it completely different than a traditional male or female, we see it as a female that has turned a cock from disgusting on a man to "omg, that's it, that's a perfect assimilation of everything I've been attracted too my whole life." Obviously you don't accept it or get it, because the word "dudes" say volumes about that.

So are you looking for a debate here about how or why transgenders identify themselves differently than "dudes" or why TS hobbyists are attracted to them? Or maybe, you walk around hoping the entire world will always view everything the way you do, and your mission in life is to change others to your viewpoint of things, and you'll start with that one little word that offends transgenders, "dudes"/men? Allow me to guess something here, you see everything in the world as either black and white, and for you gray doesn't exist? What kind of baited response were you hoping the word "dudes" would provoke?

"To become a transgender... blah blah blah...takes more bravery, money and courage than most people could imagine."

When women have body dysmorphia and starve themselves we recognize that as a mental illness. But if a dude wants to believe he's a women, we call it stunning and brave.

I'm all for live and let live, but don't think for a minute that you are entitled to tell other people how they need to believe anymore than "normies" have a right to tell the trans how they should believe.

Opposite sides of the same fascist currency.

Thanks again for the review. I had noticed her ads since she looks to be more passable. Thanks for an honest review of her services.

Thanks again for the review. I had noticed her ads since she looks to be more passable. Thanks for an honest review of her services. Originally Posted by dogfart

You bet. Thanks for the comment.

don't think for a minute that you are entitled to tell other people how they need to believe Originally Posted by texassapper

Post # 4 wasn't about changing beliefs, the underlying message was about everyone keeping highly offensive publicly posted slurs about certain classes of people off the board. It seems crazy to allow slurs here for a class of people that are being reviewed here. Sometimes the only way you can help people see beyond their harmful and hateful actions, is by informing them of how much suffering the people they're harming are constantly going through.

As for Eliot_Spitzer, he can keep his beliefs, changing them wasn't even a passing thought, nor was conversion to my beliefs, but that was a nice attempt to "spin" my post. I was more concerned about his damaging public slur, taking shots at the TG community, and providing an education that might possibly lead to him not posting TS slurs in the future.

I noticed something really interesting about your comment, you didn't say anything about Eliot_Spitzer's slur in post # 2 being wrong or inappropriate, nothing at all about that. I can't help but wonder if some providers might look at posts like the two of you have made, read it as hate or condoning inappropriate behavior, before agreeing to a session, and there being a chance some of them might be too busy for an appointment.

"To become a transgender... blah blah blah...takes more bravery, money and courage than most people could imagine."

When women have body dysmorphia and starve themselves we recognize that as a mental illness. But if a dude wants to believe he's a women, we call it stunning and brave.

I'm all for live and let live, but don't think for a minute that you are entitled to tell other people how they need to believe anymore than "normies" have a right to tell the trans how they should believe.

Opposite sides of the same fascist currency. Originally Posted by texassapper

Calm down, not everything is fascism. There's a big difference between an eating disorder and gender identity.

As for Eliot_Spitzer Originally Posted by dfwtsfan

The only association I have in my head when I see that handle is that he makes a homophobic comment on every TS review he comes across on this board. I would disregard him. As the saying goes, you can't fix his type.

The only association I have in my head when I see that handle is that he makes a homophobic comment on every TS review he comes across on this board. I would disregard him. As the saying goes, you can't fix his type. Originally Posted by howdy_booty

Why do we even put TS reviews on the main board? Not relevant to 99% of mongers.

I'm mostly in the Studio board these days anyway.

As quiet as this board has become over the last few years, any intel is good, no matter how niche. Strip club intel is entirely irrelevant to me, and yet I bet there are some mongers who only play there.

And unless your encounter was in an AMP, Studio, or Strip Club (the only other sections for encounters) I would say this is where it should go.

I gotta agree, these TS reviews should have a seperate forum.

Good, informative review. Thanks, mate ! Don’t pay any attention to the clowns who have negative things to say.

So what you’re saying is you paid $200 to suck a guys dick.