I think it would be fun to start a mens club or something here in town that could host a mixer where gents could visit with the available ladies of the hobby in person from time to time. Maybe like a certain day at a local bar. Those who are in the hobby that would like to mingle could wear something discreet to id themselves like a certain sports team hat or something. Just a fun thought.
Yep, it does sound like fun. The only problem is that it won't work. In a public setting there is no way to keep it discreet. What you are really suggesting is Meet-n-Greet. These are a lot of work. It would need to be in a private setting with a private entrance. Most hobbyist and providers don't want to walk through the public part of a bar to get to a back room. Attendance needs to be by invitation and probably restricted to premium access members. They would need to get referrals from active and well known providers. It is a security issue for both hobbyist and providers. It is a lot of work and quite honestly the turnout would probably be quite small.
It would be hard to get it to work but it could. The easiest way I could think of is do it off a of a site like fetlife. They have local meet and greets in town. You would have to be careful about wording as prostitution is not legal to advertise on that site but it can be a fringe fetish of sort. You could create a online event and vet people and providers there, take references etc before giving out location. This is what they do with local dungeon and play parties. But extra care would have to be take with these illegal activities. In the end a handful of people would probably show. Something like once a month would probably be pushing it. You could even have in bar of a hotel if you wanted to pre-book rooms.
This is a great idea, logistics as everyone would be mentioned and turn out could be a little bit low; but still a meet and greet would be great. I definitely am glad you're trying to think of ways to improve things for everyone 👍
It does sound like a good idea,
Although, I wouldn’t attend as I make sure (or try
To) that I don’t know anyone from real life
Before I see them.
Discretion with me is beyond Imperative..
But hey, I’m just one..
and One Monkey don’t stop no show!!