What site(s) do you use to view provider ads? How do you separate the fakes from the legit? I guess I should ask the providers what sites get them the most responses.
Read reviews. Interact with her. Trust your gut. As far as sites I don't know if we can list them but the most popular seem to be Er*s Guide, Try*t, Private D*lights and P41*. Social media like Tw*tter is popular too using #hastags to find your local favorites.