Providers with Foul Language

How does everyone else feel about providers that constanlty use foul language during session. I'm not taking about sexy or naughty talk between provider and client during session to steam things up a bit, I'm refering to those that say fuck or shit in about every sentence, while comunicating minute you walk in door. Strikes me as very unprofessional and lack of intelligence. Had it happen to me once, almost ruined session for me, but hey thats me, i prefer intelligent convo and humor. But I do like to hear" Fuck Me Harder Baby, you are so BIG LOL.
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quote--But I do like to hear" Fuck Me Harder Baby, you are so BIG LOL.

here ya go sweety------- Fuck Me Harder Baby, you are so BIG LOL.
Thanks Dallas, That was so good!! OMG say it again and I will . Ahhh!
Honestly, I find it quite tacky and obviously, not very lady-like.

Although, I do admit to the occasional "fuck" in the heat of the moment...and even then, it's said quietly. Lol.
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I was taught to swear by a senior chief boatswain's mate, and I spent some time as a public defender (where you couldn't make yourself understood by your clients unless you used "gutter talk"). I am quite fluent in foul language, and therefore I have no reason to criticize anyone else, hobbyist, provider, or civilian, for using it.

That being said, there's a time and a place you shouldn't. If, for example, a provider (or hobbyist or civilian) is the kind of person who, when invited to lunch at the Archbishop's mansion, would say, "Your Excellency, please pass the motherfucking salad", I'd probably question how close a relationship I'd want to have with her/him.



Cheers,

bcg
I was taught to swear by a senior chief boatswain's mate, and I spent some time as a public defender (where you couldn't make yourself understood by your clients unless you used "gutter talk"). I am quite fluent in foul language, and therefore I have no reason to criticize anyone else, hobbyist, provider, or civilian, for using it.

That being said, there's a time and a place you shouldn't. If, for example, a provider (or hobbyist or civilian) is the kind of person who, when invited to lunch at the Archbishop's mansion, would say, "Your Excellency, please pass the motherfucking salad", I'd probably question how close a relationship I'd want to have with her/him.



Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy
my thoughts exactly sugar
I was taught to swear by a senior chief boatswain's mate, and I spent some time as a public defender (where you couldn't make yourself understood by your clients unless you used "gutter talk"). I am quite fluent in foul language, and therefore I have no reason to criticize anyone else, hobbyist, provider, or civilian, for using it.

That being said, there's a time and a place you shouldn't. If, for example, a provider (or hobbyist or civilian) is the kind of person who, when invited to lunch at the Archbishop's mansion, would say, "Your Excellency, please pass the motherfucking salad", I'd probably question how close a relationship I'd want to have with her/him.

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy
I too have a large vocabulary of foul language from being in Navy. I have had a few slips of the tounge in my time. It does not fit well in a inteligent conversation, makes you look and feel pretty ignorant. Although such conversations between Navy personel is well understood.
I agree. I actually think you can get your point across much better without any curse words. Cursing is just a tool for whiners and complainers and relfects ignorance.
That being said, I think we've all been guilty of it!
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To me it just all depends on the circumstances and how the cursing is done. In some cases it is definitely quite tacky. An example would be a provider trying to set a romantic gfe mood for an encounter but continuously cursing. Other times if its more a pse or just "let's fuck" mood for the encounter then it can be fine. I'm reminded of a provider I've seen socially a few times but never bcd who can curse with the best of them, especially if the alcohol been flowing. Is her cursing "ladylike"? Nope, but it definitely can be fun, kinda entertaining, and possibly even cute.
Oh my I am blushing now lol
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