Time Wasters

Here's to the men who have nothing better to do than hit up providers with no intention of keeping appts.
I Do not and never will understand why you bother. You contact me, say you want an hour appt. Great. I ask if you can host because I can not.
Them-yes sure.
Me-OK great. Ask for location and get a street name. Alright. Me-can you send an uber for me I'll be ready in 50 min.
Long pauses in between texts. Eating up time.
Them-I'll have to pass, sorry.

WTF? What is the issue now? Y'all are never satisfied. Want us jumping thru hoops for you and you aren't willing to do shit. How is you paying my uber, me scamming you? I'm trying to get to you yet you can't get a car? You being married is not my fault.
Tired of the BS run around from hobbyists who have been doing this for, in my opinion, way too long and think they know this job better than I do.

Sorry, but Spontaneous appts aren't my thing with clients I've never seen before. If y'all don't understand that, then that's a problem for you.

Rant over.

A escort Not having money to pay for a Uber is sketchy. I have no problem with reimbursement when you get there but asking for a Uber upfront is a red flag. If I met you a few times beforehand it wouldn’t be a problem.

I don't mind paying for uber or lyft. But lately, and could be certain markets the drivers have been cracking down on someone other than me getting in the car. The other thing is uber app knows where I am so getting picked up at another location is a red flag for the driver. Lyft will let you pick someone else up but it links the other party to their app which discloses all real world info. I only have one provider that is cool with that. The other thing is many of us have a shared uber (family) account. Explaining the late night ride the the SO is not cool. Like I said, no issues with paying an additional $40 or so, just too costly to arrange it myself. Sorry for your troubles with time wasters though, that ain't cool.

I would not mind paying for an Uber or a small deposit to compensate a provider if our session somehow did not happen due to my fault. But I have never had anyone ask me about paying, nor have I ever failed to keep an appointment. I have had many appointments where the provider used Uber or Taxis.

My feeling is that upscale providers who screen their clients thoroughly, do not have any problems and simply include transportation as part of their donation request.

What about old fashion taxi service? Is that no longer an option when one could just call for a cab?

Why is that a red flag? I can see asking for gas money, but asking for you to call me a ride and you paying for it, is my way of guarenteeing that you're legit and you're not sending me on some wild goose chase.

"My feeling is that upscale providers who screen their clients thoroughly, do not have any problems and simply include transportation as part of their donation request."

How do you screen your clients effectively? And I was under the impression that the men on Eccie were for the most part screened. But it seems that the men on this page, are worst that the rest,in my experience.

"My feeling is that upscale providers who screen their clients thoroughly, do not have any problems and simply include transportation as part of their donation request."

How do you screen your clients effectively? And I was under the impression that the men on Eccie were for the most part screened. But it seems that the men on this page, are worst that the rest,in my experience.

I'm over the women who cancel or ghost that happens just as much or more. I had a provider dress me down because I needed to cancel out date.
Well DEAL WITH IT HONEY. Its not wasting your time, it is that things change. And yes sometimes I do change my mind because I'm no longer in the mood, my wife decides she wants it or any other reason.

Most of the time I have to contact 3-4 ladies to get 2 that are willing to work and then out of them a lot of times both stop answering the phone. This is how the world works, your dr schedules to ensure a full booking, the airlines, maintenance people as well.

That is business. And complaining and bitching about the people who are the ones paying you is a great way to never have their business again.

Simple fix. Make you Uber account require a 4 digit password to start the ride. That way the driver knows the second person ordered Uber is safe and won’t be a possible chargeback. You can also scroll to the bottom and hit share ride so the lady can see where the car is. Too easy

You act like I'm directing this at you which makes you sound like you are guilty of treating providers like shit.
So if you arent going to make a Dr appt, do you call and tell them? Or do you just no show? And do you own your business? How would you like it if your customers just NCNS and put price tags on your product that are below your prices. And how about if you're customers demanded that you customize your product that is costly to you and then wanted delivery and wanted it in an hour and didn't want to pay more or give you the address for the delivery so you say I need you to wish with me, and they leave you hanging out for 20 min then get back to you and say "sorry I've changed my mind". See a provider not showing is rude admittedly. But her not showing is not costing you a thing unless you paid her upfront. Otherwise her not showing just made your horny dick frustrated and the thrill you get fucking around diminished. But keep calling multiplies so when they hit you up you don't remember who you contacted. That sounds like you researched the girls well.

Funny you posted this. I came to see you once and you left me standing out in the blazing hot sun for about 10 minutes after you knew I was there. About ten minutes after I left, I guess that’s when you came to let me in, you texted me asking where I was. Between driving to you, standing in the sun sweating my ass off and driving back home you wasted about an hour and a half of my time. Then you had the audacity to be pissed off at me. Maybe that’s just Ksrma rearing her ugly head.

See a provider not showing is rude admittedly. But her not showing is not costing you a thing unless you paid her upfront. Originally Posted by MissK70116

not necessarily Particularly if he is hosting.
countless times having providers NCNS when I hosted a suite in the CBD to accommodate THEIR travel....

Even if it was your hotel for business, you're still out precious window of time that this thing can happen. My experience is that even when a client takes care of everything, MOST providers are way too flippant with that consideration

Having said that, I've had the pleasure of dealing with MissK and she was A#1 in communication throughout and I enjoyed a great evening with her. Unfortunately, this endeavor is not much different than any other niche business. Good luck getting Cox to give a shit so lon as they are the only game in town

Most of the well known providers who came to see me at outcall had their own cars or a rental. That being said though I’m more quicker to pay a valet fee for a ladies car when she arrives rather than I am to pay an upfront fee for an Uber. Most have this included in their rate and your word and her screening beforehand alone is enough invitation and confirmation needed for her to arrive.

I’ve made exceptions paying for a ladys Uber to me. But I would rather do that with ladies I’ve met before who are sure deals and dependable. I think sending a new lady money so she can order an Uber although it seems similar will lead to more finesses than actual arrivals and successes.

I’m from out of town so I always do incall. I show up on time….no problems. But what I don’t like is when I ask a provider their rates and they accuse me of wasting their time because I don’t want to schedule on the spot.