If you and your wife were dog fighting with each other in the kitchen and instead of picking up the cast iron frying pan and flinging it at you, she drops to her knees, undoes your pants and get's Capt. Winkies attention. Would you put the fight on the back burner?
If you were getting laid at home 3 times a week, tell me what sort of difference you would be able to show in yourself and your marriage. And that's 3 times a week from your WIFE, smartass.... and not boring sex either, really fun at least 30 min session full out fuck.
These are two separate questions. I'm all ears.
- LovingKayla
- 09-07-2011, 03:16 PM
- Iaintliein
- 09-07-2011, 03:43 PM
1. I don't feel qualified to answer the first question because
a) I refuse to "fight" (which really pisses her off by the way)
b) She refuses to get on her knees for fellatio.
2. I would have never found ASPD or ECCIE. I didn't initially start the hobby for variety or because I found my wife unattractive. As I've said before, some hunt for trophies, some just to eat.
My energy level would no doubt be higher, my mood would no doubt be better. My heart would be healthier (proven medical fact).
And, I think she'd be happier to. Hell, I've even suggested she get some strange in case the issue is just boredom with me.
My chances of winning the powerball are waaaay better than either of these happening, nothing to complain about, it's just a fact.
Now. . . don't lie, we can all see from your avatar that you are clearly not all ears.
a) I refuse to "fight" (which really pisses her off by the way)
b) She refuses to get on her knees for fellatio.
2. I would have never found ASPD or ECCIE. I didn't initially start the hobby for variety or because I found my wife unattractive. As I've said before, some hunt for trophies, some just to eat.
My energy level would no doubt be higher, my mood would no doubt be better. My heart would be healthier (proven medical fact).
And, I think she'd be happier to. Hell, I've even suggested she get some strange in case the issue is just boredom with me.
My chances of winning the powerball are waaaay better than either of these happening, nothing to complain about, it's just a fact.
Now. . . don't lie, we can all see from your avatar that you are clearly not all ears.
- Guest100811
- 09-07-2011, 04:15 PM
I'm probably a bad example for your questions, but I'll answer to throw in my two cents.
1. It would depend on the argument. If it was something petty and simple, like what movie to watch, then after she was on me for a while, I'd be laying her down to make her squirm with my tongue! Afterwards, who cares what movie we went to see. However, if it is an 'argument' about a REAL problem, unless it was specifically about her BJ skills, it would be hard for me to even get involved with her actions. Of course, I am a pretty laid back person, very logical, if you get me, there will never really be a need to argue.... maybe remind once in a while.
If our views are that skewed that we can't compromise, then the relationship needs to end, or maybe shouldn't have started. But sex doesn't solve a real problem. (It's like a drug addict escaping their reality with drugs, the problems still exist afterwards, and usually get worse when ignored...)
2. Of my two marraiges, the first was too short to count for this question, and the second, well, when things were good, 3 times a week was actually a slow week. But the relationship fell apart not because the sex slowed down. We grew apart, that happens.... while the healthiness of the intimacy can be a good indicator of the healthiness of the relationship, it is usually not the true reason for things to be falling apart..... AND, MORE importantly, the sexual intimacy cannot be the ONLY thing going for the relationship. I have several lady friends who have spectacular (in their accounts) sex with their partners, but the relationships are beyond the train wreck stage......
1. It would depend on the argument. If it was something petty and simple, like what movie to watch, then after she was on me for a while, I'd be laying her down to make her squirm with my tongue! Afterwards, who cares what movie we went to see. However, if it is an 'argument' about a REAL problem, unless it was specifically about her BJ skills, it would be hard for me to even get involved with her actions. Of course, I am a pretty laid back person, very logical, if you get me, there will never really be a need to argue.... maybe remind once in a while.
If our views are that skewed that we can't compromise, then the relationship needs to end, or maybe shouldn't have started. But sex doesn't solve a real problem. (It's like a drug addict escaping their reality with drugs, the problems still exist afterwards, and usually get worse when ignored...)2. Of my two marraiges, the first was too short to count for this question, and the second, well, when things were good, 3 times a week was actually a slow week. But the relationship fell apart not because the sex slowed down. We grew apart, that happens.... while the healthiness of the intimacy can be a good indicator of the healthiness of the relationship, it is usually not the true reason for things to be falling apart..... AND, MORE importantly, the sexual intimacy cannot be the ONLY thing going for the relationship. I have several lady friends who have spectacular (in their accounts) sex with their partners, but the relationships are beyond the train wreck stage......
- Guest071613-2
- 09-07-2011, 04:41 PM
When I saw the title, I pictured two guys fighting in an alley and a woman heroically runs up and starts fucking them, stopping the fight with sex. 
Sorry to hijack. Just thinking out loud! Carry on....
Sorry to hijack. Just thinking out loud! Carry on....
- Boltfan
- 09-07-2011, 04:47 PM
I need to kick monkmonks ass soon.
- Caitlyn
- 09-07-2011, 04:54 PM
Yikes!
- Bloodhound
- 09-07-2011, 05:44 PM
Kayla
There is no way that you "are all ears"!
There is no way that you "are all ears"!
- cheatercheater
- 09-07-2011, 07:29 PM
1. That is how it happens all the time at my house.
Then I wake up......
But IF it did, fight is off!!
2. I know for sure I wouldn't be here.
Then I wake up......
But IF it did, fight is off!!
2. I know for sure I wouldn't be here.
- Ghostdncer
- 09-07-2011, 09:38 PM
You can stop a fight with sex?
Why am I always the last one to find out about these things?
Why am I always the last one to find out about these things?
- JohnJohn
- 09-07-2011, 10:34 PM
Why do I have this undeniable urge to start an argument with Kayla?
- guest061212-1
- 09-07-2011, 10:52 PM
1) Yes. Blowjobs solve everything!
2) If I were getting enough at home, I would not feel a need to stray. Physical affection is a need.
2) If I were getting enough at home, I would not feel a need to stray. Physical affection is a need.
- DFWRaven
- 09-08-2011, 12:03 AM
In line behind Bolt to kick Monks Ass...
That aside...
Yes, Back in my married days, Sex would stop a fight... I'd come home.. She's start up.. Fight would begin.. I'd walk out.. Drive to AMP.. Have Sex.. Fight Over
That aside...
Yes, Back in my married days, Sex would stop a fight... I'd come home.. She's start up.. Fight would begin.. I'd walk out.. Drive to AMP.. Have Sex.. Fight Over
- Hobbyfun
- 09-08-2011, 03:48 AM
Sex would stop a lot of stuff and fights would be at the top of the list. I am still trying to figure women out here, since women are so smart why in hell have they not figured that out.
If women would give BJ and or sex more often men would be in real trouble, no more fights, no more cheating, women could spend all the money they want, have anything they want,
Wife's of America WAKE UP,
If women would give BJ and or sex more often men would be in real trouble, no more fights, no more cheating, women could spend all the money they want, have anything they want,
Wife's of America WAKE UP,
- Torito
- 09-08-2011, 08:25 AM
Moved from Coed. Not hobby related.
Torito
Torito
- Richardson570
- 10-05-2011, 09:37 PM
It works in the reverse. I've ended several bad nights by going down and doing what I love to my SO. After a few seconds she melts and we have an incredible few hours.
And 30 minutes? NFW, I need at least 90 minutes to 2 hours for us both to get it ALL out of our system.
But that still can't save a bad relationship.
And 30 minutes? NFW, I need at least 90 minutes to 2 hours for us both to get it ALL out of our system.
But that still can't save a bad relationship.