AITA… chewed out for not providing uber

Messaged looking for someone (no names because she’s reviewed here with several yes’s) to come see me at work (I know, super unreasonable) and she said I would need to provide a lyft or Uber purchased with my account. I’m happy to pay for a ride, but for obvious reasons don’t want random rides on my account while I’m at work. She doesn’t respond to this for a couple hours, then again asked me to get her an Uber. I politely explained this further as well as that I can’t leave work for long enough to come pick her up, and thanked her and told her no problem and to stay safe. All of a sudden she can message a lot faster than when I’m trying to talk to her and schedule. Full on chews me out for not wanting to put an Uber on my account. Accuses me of wanting the female to “do everything, drive there, fuck you, etc.” (which isn’t that the idea with an OC?) She did send a nice picture of what I was missing out on with the caption “your loss” so I guess I have that!

Am I the asshole here?

Everyone has different rules and demands, on both sides. But, it should be ok to sat no at that point she wasn't out anything but messaging back.

No! That kind of behavior let's you know what class of Provider your dealing with. Set your sights on better Providers. Some get Yes's and aren't worth a shit, but a White Knight will come rescue them because he thinks they're in love with him or he with them.
Look at who's giving them the yes's. I believe you acted correctly my man and she was totally out of line.

Also, if it says in the ad that they don’t have transportation (need Uber or picked up) I wouldn’t message to begin with because that’s not something I’m okay with. if they said “it’s an extra $__ to come to where you are” that is understandable and can be decided as well. Imagine if I chewed out every provider that didn’t want to, or couldn’t come to me…

You can take this to the men's lounge and call her out by name. Other guys need to know when they're BSC. LOL

Not at all Babe. Never let anyone make you feel bad for protecting yourself.

If she can't/won't understand your side of not being comfortable it's her loss and not worth the risk

I completely agree with Chief and Catman that is total bullshit. I can almost tell you who the provider is.

Appreciate the feedback. I’m chalking it up to some things don’t happen for a reason.

Ditto!!

Not all pu%%y is good pu%%y! If it is too much hassle,go with a different option!

Wahooguy look at it this way
she might have saved you a worse visit then what you just explained