Anybody else?

The amount of providers, new/old to industry and younger most times, that offer "5 star stervice" or whatever they put on their ad along those lines but all they do is have no's and just lay there is annoying. I go to ask questions of what they might be into that I like and it's either a no or "that's a fetish do it'd be extra", seriously? 1. I'm asking if you enjoy it, if you don't then there's no point in paying an extra fee because the whole point of doing it, at least for me, is that you also enjoy as much as I do. 2. If you do enjoy it, and still want and extra fee, why? I understand it's your fees and you decide but if it's something you enjoy then why make someone pay extra?

On the other hand of it and they don't offer extra and have the typical no list (i.e. no kissing, no gfe, no bb/bbbj), what do you even offer then that's worth it for us to see you? I completely understand that it's about safety most of the times is their reason but that tells most of us that there's a 50/50 chance you might just be wood plank in the service which is what we don't want, at least not me I want someone who's gonna be into it and enjoy it (or at least fake it good).

Not trying to affend anyone it's just a rant I wanted to get out that's been bothering me lately.
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The upsell predates the current market situation, but you know why they charge, it isn't and never has been about their pleasure. Thats why the I in IOP is ILLUSION. The marketing is about separating you and your money, you're paying top level professional fees demand professional service.

I laugh out loud when i see an ad that says Ill do all the things SHE won't do with a list of NOs, cuz any girl I see in the real world will generally do ALL of that. It's just marketing. Most girls under 30 are just hustlers now, not escorts and certainly not courtesans. They have lots of options to get your money, some of which aren't anything close to escorting, just getting naked on the net. it's driving prices up, service down, and excepting the girls with ummmm issues why do they need to work when they can keep rinsing folks.

read the reviews, walkers, disabled girls, hell an amputee is posting on LC cheap, and I'm sure she gets calls. check out the reviews that are, well she wasn't the pics, but i went in anyway. There's no market check to poor service (girls who scam still get defenders if the ass was good once, lol). No check at all! Which is why sharing info is important, thank you ECCIE! make informed choices. Thats really all we can do.

I frankly don't care if she's faking if it's convincing, it's a fantasy, MY fantasy, so I expect her to play her part. that's what being a professional is. To my mind you're complaining about them charging for their pleasure, but they aren't in this business for pleasure, or they'd pick you up at the bar, and you'd probably be hotter.

We should all work to out the hustlers.

Cue the providers who will say thats not me and use it to advertise. Cool, it's all marketing. no offense taken!
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i appreciate the comments, but i think they should be open! just my two cents

but good input! info sharing really is all we can do. buyers making informed choices.
That's another upcharge I don't understand. You want me to pay extra for bbbj (or don't offer it) but me doing DATY is perfectly fine?