Oh you're finished? Oh well allow me to retort - -
I really wish that providers would not scam, deceive, lie, and steal from clients. This sort of ugliness traumatizes the client and reinforces stereotypes of providers, and feeds a vicious circle of pain. That's why we have forums like Eccie and OH2 to help spread the word and help build credibility - for the good and the bad.
Yes, she stole from me, and she lied and deceived and scammed. This is not respectful, and I do not believe she cares about respecting others as it seems like she doesn't respect herself. And you're totally right - if she was respectful, this would not have happened.
She is a bad person trying the make the best outcomes for herself, and all she cares about is immediate gratification and getting the money by any unethical and unscrupulous means possible.
When we treat our clients horribly, then they see us as just an ATM, and we see them as who they really are - a wolf in sheep-skin, or a scam artist. Then in our anger we want to spread the word to help warn others to avoid such horrible and unscrupulous behavior. I see it everyday too, we all have some sort of pain, but that does not justify one to scam or lie or steal from others.
Please try to remember that providers and clients are all deserving in our compassion and understanding, and it's in everyone's interest to hold off on the ugliness, which includes being truthful and honest with your services and following through on your word.
And I am not exaggerating when I say she's Jabba The Hut. She has another review online somewhere came after mine where the guy said she is way bigger in person. I did not drink that night but I ignored the red flags and made a grave mistake. I hope no one else does the same.
Really wish clients wouldn't mock physical attributes of providers like this, and I wish the site wouldnt allow it. This sort of ugliness traumatizes providers, reinforces stereotypes of clients, and feeds a vicious circle of pain.
Yes, I hear that she stole from him, but truthfully, if we all choose to always show each other respect, then this sort of incident would occur way less often.
I know providers who enjoy their work, but I dont know one who is in the job for any reason other than needing the money. They are people trying to msle the best in a bad situation.
When we treat providers horribly, then they see us as horrible people, then they can justify to themselves treating us horribly, then in our anger, we treat providers horribly. I see it everyday in the provider and sugar baby forums. The pain they feel is agony.
Please, try to remember that providers are people deserving of our compassion and understanding, and it is in everyone's interest to hold off on the ugliness.
Originally Posted by bro.burt