Left hanging by Andi

So I called Andi ,303-435-8304, this afternoon and scheduled an appointment with her for about 2 hours later. I needed this time to drive from where I live in Illinois roughly 100 miles away. I got in my car and headed towards St. Louis. She had told me to call her about 6:45 to get directions to her hotel. When I called, she answered and told me she wasn't going to be able to see me. Her reasoning was that she looked into my number and it showed as a land line and she found it posted on a couple escort sites. The number I was using was a Skype number from the Skype Android app. I do this to keep my hobby activity secret from my SO. Nevermind that I had already driven over an hour away from my home to get turned away. I pulled over at the next exit and googled my number from my phone, and found nothing. I tried to call her back a couple times but she wouldn't answer the phone. Now that I am finally home and I google my number I see that a couple escort services comes up in the google search but only the area code and first 3 digits on the first site and nothing similar to my number on the second site. I can't figure out why it is in the search results at all. I have had this number a little under a year and have never been afiliated or used these two escort services that are coming up in the search results. I think I may have their old phone number from the luck of the draw but I can't prove it. The number expires next month so I guess I'll get a new one. What a crappy evening.

Win

Sorry this happened to you sugar

By "posted on a couple escort sites" she could have meant the blacklist sites used by escorts to screen clients. Phone numbers on one of those sites will turn up in Google searches but there are other sites that will not turn up in Google.

It sucks that you drove that far and then to be turned away but at least she answered and told you there was a problem instead of just not answering her phone at all.

There is always two sides to a story. Whatever she found made her uncomfortable with meeting you. If it occurred truly out of some sort of weird coincidence with you getting a bad number then that's unfortunate.

As someone who also has to travel a fair distance for his fun, I'd suggest more pre-planning in the future. Last minute actions don't give either the provider or the hobbyist much time to really screen who they are about to put themselves in a very intimate situation with.

I am reasonably sure I found the same thing that she did. I really have no idea why those sites showed up in the results. I google searched my number with a couple of the digits in the end changed and they didn't show up. When researching providers in the past by googling phone numbers I've seen google results with similar phone numbers, but not identical to what I searched, but usualy its a few pages into the results. Sadly, last minute is really the only thing that I can ever make work.

Sorry you feel that way but when I asked you Questions to screen you , you seemed deceptive . My safety is very important to me . I even asked you are you a hobbyist and you said no . I asked for ref's and you did'nt have any , plus your number came back as being affiliated with a escort service when I googled it . If you would had contacted me via ECC then it would of been easier for you to get screened . Honesty is the best policy . I wish you well .... xoxo Andi

Safety should always come first.

Last minute appointments just don't give either the provider or the hobbyist enough time to research and screen the other person. Even if Win had refs, who is to say that Andi would have been able to successfully contact them and get their feedback within a such a short time frame. It sounds like Andi was trying to screen through personal information provided but was not comfortable with the situation. I'm sure it took time for her to Google and otherwise search for information to verify Win.

Natale or other providers on here probably know more, but its my general understanding that LE and some not so nice guys will book last minute appointments to try and get around screening. So keep that in mind, when contacting a provider. Last minute appointment requests may be greeted with more suspicion than others.

I'm going to refute this one part at a time.

you seemed deceptive Originally Posted by AndiSweetCheeks

I was nervous. I have a SO.

I even asked you are you a hobbyist and you said no Originally Posted by AndiSweetCheeks

I did not answer no. I said yes but I only do this once or twice a year.

I asked for ref's and you did'nt have any Originally Posted by AndiSweetCheeks

You most certainly didn't ask for ref's. I thought this was very odd and it actually made me more nervous. I could have provided one local to me. You asked if I was on any of the boards and I told you about GBN. You hadn't heard of it. I didn't mention here because I just recently signed up. I never felt the need to sign up prior because you don't need to be a member to see the posts/reviews.

Honesty is the best policy Originally Posted by AndiSweetCheeks

Honesty is the best policy.... I was 110% straight with you. You got scared off and I guess thats fine. Just don't twist the story to make me look like a bad guy. I'm not.

I wish you well .... xoxo Andi Originally Posted by AndiSweetCheeks

I wish you well also. I hope in the future we can see each other and laugh about how silly this was.

Win

Safety should always come first.

Last minute appointments just don't give either the provider or the hobbyist enough time to research and screen the other person. Even if Win had refs, who is to say that Andi would have been able to successfully contact them and get their feedback within a such a short time frame. It sounds like Andi was trying to screen through personal information provided but was not comfortable with the situation. I'm sure it took time for her to Google and otherwise search for information to verify Win.

Natale or other providers on here probably know more, but its my general understanding that LE and some not so nice guys will book last minute appointments to try and get around screening. So keep that in mind, when contacting a provider. Last minute appointment requests may be greeted with more suspicion than others. Originally Posted by Jannisary

My sweet partner in crime. You are correct. Last minute appts are not the best for a great appt. I realize if it is someone I have seen before then that is totally different. Once it took 1.5 weeks to get a guy verified. It was not his fault but the ladies that he used did not get back to me. So we played pm tag until he could find a few ladies that would reply. Some of the ladies he used were on vacation some I have no clue. The best policy I think if you find a lady you like go ahead and let her verify you get that out of the way. Then when there is a moment you have time to spend together it is 1 less thing to stand in your way.

Have fun ya'll....