Am I Just Too Old?

I'm older, in my 50s, and hadn't done this for a while. Tried to set something up with Camila Chambers as the age seemed right for me. Went through a series of emails to verify and then got a polite "no thanks" with no explanation. I was pretty much willing to give everything but my dental records.

It's very depressing to get shot down on this. In the correspondence I related that I was in need of simple affection more than anything else. Not helping is that I'm not good with cellphones.

I'm just trying to find an intelligent mature woman who's no more of a flake than I am just to spend time with, but I can't just find anyone. My guess is that I'm just too old for this.
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Sounds like you would be considered a "Newbie" by most ladies, even though your join date is from five years ago. You might want to try these two things.

1. Take a look at this thread "Newbies and the ladies that love them". Here is a link to page #12. This would be a good place to start your research.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ewbies&page=12

2. The OH2 site (OURHOME2.NET) has an "In Search Of" function". ECCIE use to have this as well but got rid of it about five years ago. Get an account on OH2 and post your situation over there. There are several ladies that post ads on OH2 that say they don't have an age restriction.

In a large hobby city like Dallas, you should be able to find what you are looking for if you are willing to come up with the donation. Good luck.
This is 95% of the "hobby" right now. You're not the only one. Based on what I've been told, the Asian girls give the best quality services, and I've been doing it wrong since I started in 2016. Welcome to the madness and disappointments.
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This is 95% of the "hobby" right now. You're not the only one. Based on what I've been told, the Asian girls give the best quality services, and I've been doing it wrong since I started in 2016. Welcome to the madness and disappointments. Originally Posted by dormGE
In a big city like Dallas, one should be able to find a quality "GFE" experience. However, IOP in most cases, is not listed as a MENU list item. That maybe more difficult to find outside of the AMP.
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I wouldn’t let one turndown damp your enthusiasm. Screening has gotten a bit more tight, but you can find a way if you are gently persistent and honest, I imagine.
well that can happen to anyone and you should not be concerned about that although I do agree it is a disappointing
Give LegendaryBadass a holler. She’s such a great lay and very open minded.
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  • TAZ
  • 11-11-2024, 09:08 AM
And by the way.... being in your 50's is NOT old!
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50's is not OLD at all .
I will put my name in the hat I'm im a age range where I know how to take care of a man needs and if you just need lot of affection and MORE I'm there.
When I'm on tour in Dallas check me out ,should be back around Jan
I have relly good TCB and BCD skills.

Some providres are just not into the affesction needs of a man!
Sorry to hear that. How old is Camilla Chambers? Isn’t she in her 40s?

I'm older, in my 50s, and hadn't done this for a while. Tried to set something up with Camila Chambers as the age seemed right for me. Went through a series of emails to verify and then got a polite "no thanks" with no explanation. I was pretty much willing to give everything but my dental records.

It's very depressing to get shot down on this. In the correspondence I related that I was in need of simple affection more than anything else. Not helping is that I'm not good with cellphones.

I'm just trying to find an intelligent mature woman who's no more of a flake than I am just to spend time with, but I can't just find anyone. My guess is that I'm just too old for this. Originally Posted by Tripod66
There are a lot of providers that like older men, believe me ur Not old!! Keep trying u’ll
find one!!
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I'm older, in my 50s, and hadn't done this for a while. Tried to set something up with Camila Chambers as the age seemed right for me. Went through a series of emails to verify and then got a polite "no thanks" with no explanation. I was pretty much willing to give everything but my dental records.

It's very depressing to get shot down on this. In the correspondence I related that I was in need of simple affection more than anything else. Not helping is that I'm not good with cellphones.

I'm just trying to find an intelligent mature woman who's no more of a flake than I am just to spend time with, but I can't just find anyone. My guess is that I'm just too old for this. Originally Posted by Tripod66

50 is NOT old!
You sir are in your prime!
Definitely some of us ladies that would love to see you if you are serious.
Having a Date and Time in mind would be helpful when reaching out to meet someone. Advance notice is some times helpful so that if screening needs to be done they have time to do so.
I see you have seen a couple ladies before based on the reviews you have linked to your profile. I believe those ladies are still around. Maybe reach out to them for a re-visit if you enjoyed their company to get updated references if they are reference friendly.
I had made a post on another site looking for ladies who are NEWBIE FRIENDLY for I am not, but like to help others if I can.
Here is a list of the ladies who responded.
YOU MUST DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH TO MAKE SURE THEY WOULD BE COMPATIBLE FOR I DON’T KNOW WHAT BCD LOOKS LIKE FOR THESE LADIES!! Except Laura Lynn who is a complete sweetheart,smells amazing and who has a nice, clean, pet free, and safe incall.
I hope this list can help some of you gentlemen that are needing to get your foot in the door.
AGAIN DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH!!❤️

Newbie Friendly List:

Laura Lynn
✅️ Reference friendly
✅️ newbie date option available.
Location:The Colony/Lewisville area
https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=55818
Laura-Lynn.tryst.link
LauraLynnofDFW@protonmail.ch
preferred411.com/P6005

Sweethoneybee
Location:SW Ft.worth
https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php...-Sweethoneybee
https://preferred411.com/P416434
✅️ Reference friendly
✅️ newbie date option available.

LadyAnastasia
Location: Near Fort Worth
https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php...-LadyAnastasia
P411: P40550 | TER: 384030 Tryst: Anastasia-Black
Located in Ft. Worth
✅️ Reference friendly
✅️ newbie date option available.

Bella
Location: Decatur
https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php...ellaTheBoss313
Location: Northwest Hwy & 35 -
✅️ Reference friendly
✅️ newbie date option available.

Kendall Kain- https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...ou!&highlight=
✅NEWBIES Welcome Alternative Screening
✅ Reference friendly

Reese McClain
https://tryst.link/escort/reesemcclain#availability
https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php...-Reese-McClain
✅NEWBIES Welcome Alternative Screening
✅ Reference friendly

LustyBusty- https://www.bustygina.com/
https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=205713
Location:Tours Dallas
✅NEWBIES Welcome Alternative Screening
✅ Reference friendly

MercedesLynn
Location:
Incalls Park Cities / Highland Park area)
Outcalls (DFW)
https://preferred411.com/P443107
https://mercedeslynn.cuties-sites.com/
✅️ Reference friendly
✅️ newbie date option available.

SexxyCarlyofDFW
Location: South Arlington Incall/DFW Outcall
https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php...XXXyCarlyofDFW
✅️ Reference friendly
✅️ newbie date option available.
Requires Deposit

I hope this helps someone,
Xoxo,
Jessica UTR
Aka Ultimate Jessica
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Here is another lady who I was in contact with last night.
Alyssa Nicole
✅Newbie Friendly
✅️ Reference friendly
Location: upscale incall located in North Dallas, close to the tollway in Addison
https://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=24613
Alyssa Nicole | Tryst.link: Find independent escorts
http://yourdallassecret.com
yourdallassecret@hushmail.com
https://preferred411.com/P47583
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I agree with TTH that screening likely has more to do with it than age. I’m a little older than you and don’t feel like my age impedes my ability to meet women at all. The ladies in this community tend to value security and reliability more than anything else, and if you are able to acquire a reputation of simply being a decent human being you should get all the companionship you want or can afford.
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I agree with TTH that screening likely has more to do with it than age. I’m a little older than you and don’t feel like my age impedes my ability to meet women at all. The ladies in this community tend to value security and reliability more than anything else, and if you are able to acquire a reputation of simply being a decent human being you should get all the companionship you want or can afford. Originally Posted by TinMan
Yes sir! If they only knew how it is to be on the providers side well at least the good ones.. I have definitely come to realize and understand the hobbiest side as well when it comes to providers that just like to scam you which is beyond sad to me and shows me thier true character. We deal with so many time wasters who actually have no interest in seeing anyone for it is just a way they enetertain themselves sadly. Being compatible is very important to some of us as well. I definitely don’t just see anyone that reaches out to me. Everyone likes different things and glad to know the variety is there for others. We are all looking for something and I most definitely am looking for mutual enjoyment. If they are looking for a type a provider that I see myself not being I will most definitely let them know that I don’t think we are compatible and why. I won’t keep you wondering for I look forward to play therapy just as much as you do. With the right companion of course.