Tips to getting back in…

Gang-been out of the hobby for about 7 years and trying to get back in. Any tips to be successful? Can’t seem to get folks to reply (used to use the chat a lot, but it has been gone for a while)

Any insight for a fellow hobbling will be greatly appreciated thank

I'd start with any providers you've seen that are still active and see if they will visit with you again. Write reviews, get references.

Gang-been out of the hobby for about 7 years and trying to get back in. Any tips to be successful? Can’t seem to get folks to reply (used to use the chat a lot, but it has been gone for a while)

Any insight for a fellow hobbling will be greatly appreciated thank Originally Posted by thefamilydog

Since you have been away for seven years, most independents would consider you a Newbie. You should search for ladies that see newbies. Here is a link for the thread "Newbies and the ladies that love them". Once you get a couple of references it will be easier to get screened.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ewbies&page=12

plan on increased pricing

I would search the thread OP provided here for Providers who see Newbies.
Alternatively, P411 is good; once you get 2-3 Okays there, most (if not all) will see you.

Just a heads up - quite a few are asking for deposits and/or copy of your DL - JUST SAY NO

I understand the girls are worried about uptick in law enforcement I am not going to share my personal info - nor make a booking that requires a deposit.

just remember 2 thing.
1. Avoid anyone who requests the deposit
2. Avoid anyone who askes for your id ( any part ) or your social media page ( facebook linkin or whatever )

just remember 2 thing.
1. Avoid anyone who requests the deposit
2. Avoid anyone who askes for your id ( any part ) or your social media page ( facebook linkin or whatever )

The newbie thread apparently has been removed.

The newbie thread apparently has been removed. Originally Posted by Crzytxn

Yes, it was removed. It was there on 11/29/24. I tested the link to make sure it worked. @OP, set up an account on OH2 (Ourhome2.net) and use the "in search of" function. Ask for providers that see newbies. You will get some replies back pretty quickly. You have been away for a while. ECCIE does not have the "in search of" function anymore.

just remember 2 thing.
1. Avoid anyone who requests the deposit
2. Avoid anyone who askes for your id ( any part ) or your social media page ( facebook linkin or whatever ) Originally Posted by jp26lilac

Seriously? Going to see a provider who does not ask for any screening or a deposit is most likely a sting or someone being managed.

Also, the family dog, you would have a lot better luck setting up “appointments” if that’s what you actually did. Instead, you’ve been reaching out to women (myself included, mostly over on OH2)asking to meet you for free coffee dates.

Seriously? Going to see a provider who does not ask for any screening or a deposit is most likely a sting or someone being managed.

... Originally Posted by DallasBella

I came here to say that but you beat me to it! These worst advice to newbies posts aren't helping anyone except the cheapest most self entitled men on the planet. I beg y'all newbies to ignore the bad advice!

Real Advice:
Choose a provider that welcomes newbies and either screens, requires a deposit, or BOTH if you want to stay safe and have fun.

Research your provider online for days to ensure she's real and not scamming you out of info or deposit money. Do not be impulsive. Reach out with a thorough polite introduction and follow all of her posted rules.

Most of all; relax, stay kind, and enjoy!

With One foot carefully in front of the other ♡

Only if Newbie's would listen to provides and not other men to stay safe and do our screeing we ask for and only see Well Establish providers are not going to take your info and use it for anything but to know who you are and make sure your not a some crazy rapist.

Stay away from providers who don't screen.

Stay off LC -STG and all scam sites.

Not all providers ask for ID's -

Not all providers that ask for deposit are not going to rip you off. ( what for over a few $) not worth it.

This is why I like having p411. I've been in the hobby for a while and my p411 goes back 12 years. I stepped away for a few years and renewed last year. If you don't have p411, get it . Then find providers on there that are newbie friendly. That's my .02