Domination

Ive been thinking about taking on a dominant role!! Who thinks I should?

Ive been thinking about taking on a dominant role!! Who thinks I should? Originally Posted by Kasey1846

What specifically?

I was thinking about being a dominatrix. Did I spell that correctly?

I was thinking about being a dominatrix. Did I spell that correctly? Originally Posted by Kasey1846

That is spelled correctly.

You should give it a go. Very few offer this. I don't know if you can find a mentor, it would help. I think Mistress Daria in Dallas offers "classes".

I have seen multiple dominatrixes and there is an art to it.
Also seen escorts that try to do dominant things just because that is what the client wants. You could tell they were inexperienced.

There is a big difference between escorts that do it because they want the business and a dominatrix that enjoys it and knows what she is doing.

You can't just show up and go through the motions, you have to be into it.

Hmmmm im in zHouston area a lot...and been wanting to get into that style of plat

My best friend always says if she had been a dom, she would never had to work a day in her life. Lol

It would be nice to find an escort to play a submissive. I like the power dynamics of putting a chain and collar on her. Make her walk around the house on all fours and spanking her butt until its red.

before you jump into that role, i suggest, as neighbordude did, that you study all you can about what the role is and is not, especially the boundaries.

and remember, the submissive partner really has the control.

Bitte denken Sie daran, wie wichtig die Nachsorge ist
: Please remember that after care is very important :

Ive been thinking about taking on a dominant role!! Who thinks I should? Originally Posted by Kasey1846

Do it. There are some aspects of BDSM that interest me.

You really need to know what you’re doing if you’re going to practice BDSM. They have classes and get togethers. It’s more of a lifestyle then just jumping in and start offering sessions. You could really hurt someone physically and/or mentally if you don’t know what you’re doing. Domination is an exchange of power. Great communication skills are needed for sessions. You’ll need to learn how to properly warm someone up without leaving marks. If you’re doing bondage, you’ll need to know the basics, so you don’t cut off blood flow. Then there’s aftercare. I was a pro domme for several years and loved it, until one day I was walking around my house with a tiara on and had a stable of slaves, one in which I got carried away with and went too far. I started to feel like a sadist and that I was living in fantasy land too much, so I stopped. But, years later, I find myself craving D/s play a lot. I’m actually working on a separate site as I plan on coming back into the lifestyle some. If you ever need any resources let me or some of the other experienced players know.

And be very careful with pegging and prostrate play etc. Always have a good contract written out and respect each others limits.

Stay safe and have fun!