Newbie Question; donations and gifts.

Hello, as I muster my courage and get my ducks in order to be a decent gentleman in this hobby world, I have a question regarding donation.

I assume every provider is different in how they receive their donation, but I believe roses are preferential for my own situation.

Regarding this, how would I hand off my donation? Do I may it clear in my non verbal language of where it is and be discreet.

My secondary question relates to gift giving. I find the pleasure of surprising or giving something at least a little nice as a personality trait of mine and I was wondering what do y'all ladies prefer? Gift, no gift? And if gift, what kind of gift(s) and how should it be placed/presented? I have read recent threads indicating some women already know the vibe of their incall and that this may not be permissible if they're feeling some heat and they prefer clear and consistent communication.

Any thoughts on this from ladies or gents as I feel this question is more provider specific and I just want a flow and feeling from seasoned pros on the matter.

Focus on what is most important: Not asking too many questions or making too many requests prior to the meeting, causing you to spook the lady. Don’t haggle over rates. Be on time. Be clean, or at least ask for a shower before you get intimate.

If you do all that she probably won’t care too much about how you present gifts, etc. Since you are new go ahead and lay the donation in a visible place soon after you arrive where she will see it, and if she doesn’t acknowledge its presence before you leave make sure you alert her to its whereabouts so there is no dispute regarding what you left.

The whole “leave it in an envelope” or “I include it in a card” is old-fashioned and frankly has lead to other issues, like accusations that the envelope included blank paper instead of cash. I have not once had a lady get upset because I left visible cash on a counter. Of course, if she provides specific instructions, follow them.

As far as gifts, I rarely bring one unless I know enough about her and am inspired to do so. I’m sure the ladies appreciate a thoughtful gift, but really if you do all the other things right they are going to appreciate that more than a trinket.

I like no envelope.

After you get a hug and a kiss just set the donation where she can see it, before getting in the shower, that way she has time to count and put it in a safe place. As for a gift I would wait till the next time you see her or you can tip after the seassion if you feel the need to.

Every provider has her own way of doing things. But the best thing you can do is just place the donation down as soon as you can.. Make us better at ease and can move on to the fun part or our time with each other..

One thing don't do and what I don't like is leave the donation in the bathroom and make me/us go look for it. It need's to be out in the open .Had a guy put it in my makeup bag (I was like why are you touching my stuff)

And everything Tinman said ^

I think you got the best two answers you can get.

Follow what their profile says, and if they include a gift list, get something from it.

if she's on p411, see what her fav flower, beverage, food are.
then, take one or more. she might remember that, she might not.
but i'm pretty sure she'd appreciate the thought & action.

i recently took my "friend" her fav soda & snack - we enjoyed them as we conversed before moving on to the playroom for some delites.

generally, my gifts are 3-20$ items, not diamonds or dom perignon.

i damn baby..you sound like a true gentleman!

PM has right answer..find out her likes and then cater to them..thoughtfulness gets rewarded!

I once had a gent bring me a few novelty rubber duckies cause he saw in a post here that I collect them

Flowers are a waste. If you want to gift give more cash. As for how to give the donation ask the provider there preference