... But what if they waste our time? What compensation do we get? ... Originally Posted by averageguy12367I haven't had this problem in many years but it certainly does exist. But I can tell you how I used to look at it. My compensation was education. I learned who I did not want to see, how to handle my communications differently, and, eventually, how to avoid it altogether. I would think you also should discourage this behavior among companions by simply refusing to tolerate it. Walk away.
I haven't had this problem in many years but it certainly does exist. But I can tell you how I used to look at it. My compensation was education. I learned who I did not want to see, how to handle my communications differently, and, eventually, how to avoid it altogether. I would think you also should discourage this behavior among companions by simply refusing to tolerate it. Walk away. Originally Posted by GutterFund100% I would think you also should discourage this behavior among companions by simply refusing to tolerate it. Walk away.
I have become tired of trying to meet most independents. In the past several years I would guess that close to 50% of the attempts of booking never happened. Either I was ignored confirmed an appointment but ghosted later. For this reason I find myself spending more time at the AMP's. There are disappointments at the amp's but at least I get a message.Some sage advise from GF and Miss Gina, but I'll add a few thoughts. I'd look at where you doing your shopping, and the general success rate of the gents who frequent those sites. I understand there's a market for everyone and a price point they're comfortable with. Personally I have no tolerance for sites that have such a high rate of a) no shows, b) lack luster performance c) or general poor quality surroundings. Sites like STG, or LC as an example seem to have a high rate of poor reviews and issues of ladies who are just "working" for the next buck. Research for ladies who have an overwhelming number of VERY satisfied reviews. Then look at the gents who review them, and what kind of ladies they generally see. This will provide more insight as to the realism of the reviews. While this may lead you into a bit higher price point, you can then decide if your searching for a REALLY quality experience, (my choice) or just want to have an immediate need satisfied. Would you trade 2 or 3 lukewarm encounters, (or no shows) for one memorable encounter. It all depends on what you really want out of your dates, and how much your willing to put into maxamizing the chance for a superior outcome. The ladies are out there, you just have to learn how to do the research....
I have promised myself that I would try some of the local talent but find it hard to plan more than a day in advance. Getting in touch with the locals seems to take too long. I made a new years pledge to suck it up and put more effort in the pursuit of happiness. Originally Posted by Holedriller
Some sage advise from GF and Miss Gina, but I'll add a few thoughts. I'd look at where you doing your shopping, and the general success rate of the gents who frequent those sites. I understand there's a market for everyone and a price point they're comfortable with. Personally I have no tolerance for sites that have such a high rate of a) no shows, b) lack luster performance c) or general poor quality surroundings. Sites like STG, or LC as an example seem to have a high rate of poor reviews and issues of ladies who are just "working" for the next buck. Research for ladies who have an overwhelming number of VERY satisfied reviews. Then look at the gents who review them, and what kind of ladies they generally see. This will provide more insight as to the realism of the reviews. While this may lead you into a bit higher price point, you can then decide if your searching for a REALLY quality experience, (my choice) or just want to have an immediate need satisfied. Would you trade 2 or 3 lukewarm encounters, (or no shows) for one memorable encounter. It all depends on what you really want out of your dates, and how much your willing to put into maxamizing the chance for a superior outcome. The ladies are out there, you just have to learn how to do the research.... Originally Posted by KCFalcon77Well said!
I look at flakes a little different than most Here.Done the exact same thing myself.
I work from home and rarely see anyone except for Zoom calls and the occasional in person meeting. A flake means: I was able to get out of the house, have someplace to drive to, and have the anticipation of being able to see someone.
When she flakes, I usually find a bar, have a bite to eat, spread the $$ on the bar and take a photo. I send that photo to the same text messages thanking her for flaking. SHE saved me money by not showing up and imagine the service if she had. The provider did not have the common decency to tell you:her cat died, or
Her child was sick, she had aunt flo, her pimp was having fun with her, or what ever other excuse. Originally Posted by Fizley
Most of you are aware that the majority of providers have some sort of disclaimer about us wasting their time. Some are automatic banning from future bookings, some require monetary compensation. I understand, and agree with this. But what if they waste our time? What compensation do we get? This past year I had a few instances of this. 1. Set a date and communication was great at first. Day of meet, drove 50 miles to city of her incall, asked for an address, and nothing. 2. Asked for an incall. Time comes, I ask for an address and get told I can get a hotel room and send her the address or do a car date. Why agree to an incall if you don't have one? 3. Set an appointment for 9pm. She texted saying she was delayed and asked to move it back an hour. Then another hour. Then spent 30th minutes outside apartment waiting. I did finally see her and I enjoyed myself but 2 1/2 late. 4. Had an appointment set, got a text saying she was running late and would text when ready if I was still interested. I was. 2 hours past time set, she texted and asks how quickly i can get to her incall. I respond and head that way. Get to the address and text to let her know I'm there and nothing. No response. 5. Asked for hours of availability and got a quick response. Then asked for appointment and 3 days later, no response. Let us know if you're screening or if you don't want the appointment. These are all well reviewed providers and all but 1 are P411 members. Originally Posted by averageguy12367