An Open Apology to Lola

So, I posted an apology for a review that I made that wasn't entirely accurate. Unfortunately, this apology came too late for the forum moderators because it was seen as rectifying a post that was over 30 days old. I understand the reasoning behind such a rule; but, disagree on it's usage in this instance since I, the OP, had new information that was pertinent to the community. I'm sure this post will be removed, as well, but I honestly don't care. And, I'm sure it will have negative ramifications for my account but I'm okay with that, as well. Anyway, the post was this one:

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2993053

It was a positive review of my actual encounter with Lola but it followed a negative review for not being able to see her again. It was very wrong of me to not respect the screening process she has in place and I should never have made the negative review. Some came to the post to defend me, but they were wrong, as well. She isn't crazy, she just has a process that some of us, "good guys" that think we should get through, don't. We should respect that and move on. I should've done so and I, again, want to apologize for not. If you can see her, I would highly recommend it.

what is so shocking in the first place are the few men that automatically start a hate protest when they can't get their way.
Labeling yourself as a "good guy" doesn't look like remorse, more like flattering yourself.
You won't get a easy pass on this.

I'm not looking for an easy pass. There are quotes around "good guy" for a reason. I know I was wrong. I'm not trying to flatter myself or make myself appear anything other than wrong for posting the negative post.

You should send her some roses/flowers and take her to dinner if you really "sorry".

karma,
Stop digging an even deeper hole.
Consider Busty's suggestion.

Stop being a drama queen and move on.

You should send her some roses/flowers and take her to dinner if you really "sorry".


Originally Posted by Busty

I've offered an apology gift. I am truly sorry.

Keep it simple. Say you're sorry and you ef'd up and move on. She has a process, you didn't follow it, and you messed up. Move on

Honestly, there was no reason to post this. It comes off emotional, as if you care too much. I won't say creepy, but it's not far from it. This is a business.

The best thing you can do is forgot her existence & go on with your life.

She is a very well loved & respected lady on this/these board(s) & nothing you say will dent her reputation.

I wish you better luck on your future encounters!

Honestly, there was no reason to post this. It comes off emotional, as if you care too much. I won't say creepy, but it's not far from it. This is a business.

The best thing you can do is forgot her existence & go on with your life.

She is a very well loved & respected lady on this/these board(s) & nothing you say will dent her reputation.

I wish you better luck on your future encounters! Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

Thank you. I don't think my pestilential post did anything to hurt her reputation; at least that's my hope. And this post is to rectify any possibility of that. I'm not really concerned how I, personally, come across. I fully realize it puts me in a negative light. I'm good with that.

Honestly, there was no reason to post this. It comes off emotional, as if you care too much. I won't say creepy, but it's not far from it. Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

The Op has been obsessed with this young lady for over a year, It's far more serious than creepy!!!

So, I posted an apology for a review that I I, the OP, had new information that was pertinent to the community.

she just has a process that some of us, "good guys" that think we should get through, don't. We should respect that and move on. Originally Posted by karmachameleon

The only info pertinent to the community is that you have serious issues.
"Good guys" like you are the reason some of these ladies have such extensive screening processes...SMH!

I've offered an apology gift. I am truly sorry. Originally Posted by karmachameleon

I would say paying her rent for a year is a good start.