Secret benefits

Are yall having any luck on secret benefits? Messaged back a few girls that messaged me and crickets. I’ve only had luck finding them on social media and messaging there. No replies on the actual site. Thanks.

That site is a scam. I like the pay structure better than SA but most the profiles on there are fake. I bitched out their support when I tried it and the refunded my money and booted me.

It’s definitely hit or miss, but I seem to have better luck when their account is verified. I’ve kinda learned that the expensive way. It’s still not 100% but it is better

What is your usual opener that gets a reply?

Not a reliable site. I think they use profiles from other platforms as well as old profiles. On SA it's not rare for a gal to initiate conversation. That has never happened on SB. I know gals (personally) who appear on SB as active but they tell me they haven't been online there in months/years.

Not a reliable site. I think they use profiles from other platforms as well as old profiles. On SA it's not rare for a gal to initiate conversation. That has never happened on SB. I know gals (personally) who appear on SB as active but they tell me they haven't been online there in months/years. Originally Posted by 44formore

Same. Got a couple of initial messages from girls on SB but never any follow up. I think they have fake accounts sending out messages just trying to get you to pay to unlock them. I called them out on showing profiles active that I knew weren't. That's when they booted me. Guess I was lucky I got a refund out of it at least.

2 or 3 years ago I had great success with SA. I met some really sexy and attractive ladies that were very open to a variety of kinks and fetishes. I recently signed up again 2 months ago for the first time since early 2023 and my experience was completely different. Lots of fake and bogus profiles. I tried to connect with several ladies that all eventually ghosted me after a day or two of messaging. You still had to sift thru the garbage profiles before, but at least your persistence would be rewarded with a good clean woman willing and eager to show you a very good time for a fair price. It's a total waste of time and money now and not worth the effort.

2 or 3 years ago I had great success with SA. I met some really sexy and attractive ladies that were very open to a variety of kinks and fetishes. I recently signed up again 2 months ago for the first time since early 2023 and my experience was completely different. Lots of fake and bogus profiles. I tried to connect with several ladies that all eventually ghosted me after a day or two of messaging. You still had to sift thru the garbage profiles before, but at least your persistence would be rewarded with a good clean woman willing and eager to show you a very good time for a fair price. It's a total waste of time and money now and not worth the effort. Originally Posted by Handyman63

That was my experience with my SA renewal last year.

I subscribed to SA in 2022, and had lots of luck. Connected with 3 or 4 young ladies, had a few encounters with each, then lost contact with them (a couple of them moved out of the area).

I renewed in 2023, and had ZERO luck. Each lady either led-me-on, was fake, ghosted me, or wanted an insane amount for an encounter (like, four digits....).

That site uses old profiles and makes them look active and sends you bs lines from the
. There are a few real ones mixed in, but when they quit getting on the site still logs them on, so you really don’t have a clue unless they are active. Sucks the sore has potential too

Both have been a shitshow for years now-mostly. A few years ago I did find a couple of "regulars" and finally a solid match that lasted for most of a year until she got into a "normal" relationship. In the past I had arrangements that lasted years.


These days I'm happy with the two special ladies I see. But if I was back in the SB market I'd probably hunt in the wild.