Question about BDD

Been to BBD to a few times but never have been offered anything extra.
Any tricks for that?
Not answering your question but I'm interested in the answer. I'm worse than you.. is there a dress code? I've been wanting to go there and look around but heard you have to go dressed up. I feel like a dumbass asking but is there one?
No shorts, gym clothes or hats. Otherwise you’re good. Secret to getting extras, unfortunately that varies and is more complicated.
The secret is simple. Either be upfront and negotiate or if she hasn't played directly as in skin on skin with your Johnson in the first song, get the fuck out and find one who will.

And I wan't $200 means you should offer $100 and read the end of the last sentence above.

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phmzee's Avatar
Casual dress shorts are ok with pockets and a fly ! Just no work out shorts! Polo shirts with collar are fine! Jeans are fine! Just no ball caps! Cowboy hats are fine!
Extra is normal very simple! Ask her! If she rubs her hands over your cock she plays! Then get ready for BS cost! Get ready to walk if to high! Do it all before the fort is constructed! Think with your brain! Yes the one between your shoulders! Not your dick!
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Look at the very first "Sticky" post in this forum. Written a long time ago by a true pro, but most of it probably still applies.

The dress code used to be posted over the front desk and on their website, but I don't know if it still is. No athletic wear or baseball caps. You should wear a shirt with a collar. Otherwise, if you look halfway decent they probably won't hassle you. I typically wear casual slacks. I used to wear cargo shorts until I felt like I was too old to pull it off. Commando works best. Never wear jeans to an SC, the reason should be obvious and it shows you aren't serious.

If you find a girl that interests you, don't be afraid to get a dance or two. If it doesn't seem to be going anywhere, just cut her off after the first dance or second one at the most, and try someone else. You'll need to spend some money (that's the nature of the game) but you should eventually find one that suits your taste.

Talk to the waitresses and get to know them. They know what's going on and can steer you in the right direction.

Finally, don't expect everything to fall in your lap on the first visit. It takes practice, and you're going to have to make multiple visits and spend some money to get experience, but you can make the best use of it by trying out girls and cutting them off if it's not going the right direction.
Thanks for all the tips.. I'm going to venture out this weekend and see if I catch anything
I’m in the boat that a HJ is not really extras. For $$ I would just add a little and get the real thing.
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Interesting discussion on the "dress code". I only go in to Baby Doll's during the day, so no idea how the night shift is, but I always wear golf shorts (with 4 pockets and front zipper) as well as a graphic t-shirt (like Marvel or Star Wars-type stuff). I've never been stopped for that there.

I was almost stopped once by the door girl during the night at Treasures in Houston wearing that same thing, but the bouncer said I was fine. They weren't athletic/work-out shorts was what he said.
They don’t care anymore. The only thing they really enforce is the baseball hat rule. I was in there a couple weeks ago and an Indian guy was wearing a backpack. Not one of those European things - a standard school backpack. Slightly concerning how they let him get away with it.
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I have been to BDD a few times and there are lots of old fat guys that wear wide legged shorts and of course, go commando. What really grosses you out is when one of the guys sit on a bar stool and their balls hang out the leg of the shorts!
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I have been to BDD a few times and there are lots of old fat guys that wear wide legged shorts and of course, go commando. What really grosses you out is when one of the guys sit on a bar stool and their balls hang out the leg of the shorts! Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
That was not a very pleasant image to visually have in my mind!
Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote View Post
I have been to BDD a few times and there are lots of old fat guys that wear wide legged shorts and of course, go commando. What really grosses you out is when one of the guys sit on a bar stool and their balls hang out the leg of the shorts!

That was not a very pleasant image to visually have in my mind! Originally Posted by phmzee
yep and if you're not an old fat guy, or older guy in general they are not letting you in at night in shorts lol.
They're less strict during the day

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On another note! I am sick and tired of the guys from India or middle eastern guys sitting in the last high back chairs watching the back 2 corners! Last time I was enjoying my time I saw a camera flash and the guy took off! I was not in a position to get up fast to get the guy! Pain in the ass! Be on the lookout guys!
  • rcusa
  • 02-02-2025, 01:47 PM
A good lapdance outfit includes a polo type knit shirt and some soft cotton pants that are like hospital scrubs but black, so they resemble casual slacks. Remove the zipper and replace it with soft velcro. Easier access than even running shorts, yet they don't draw unwanted attention from management.