A provider friend of mine did an outcall to a guy in Southlake. He held her head down while FF and was choking her with the process. As soon as she could she ran out of the house telling the guy where to go. Let the girl drive. She will do what she can. Don't force anything.
Originally Posted by Bestman200600
The intensity of this action depends on the size and/or hardness of his “fountain pen” and on the usage style. It is always more fulfilling if it is initiated and controlled by the receiving party, as Bestman stated above. Also holding down someone is not ok and a quick path to a ruined episode, even being BL’ed. I suggest to communicate first.
Let’s hope that OP is aware and experienced enough in the subject matter, in spite of being a very recent handle…