Unbelievable...Ladies, what would you do...Open For Gentlemen's Opinion As Well...

So ladies what would you do If a gentleman scheduled and hour of your time, he showed up on time, he put the correct donation on the table...everything was good...both parties were comfortable...but about 45 minutes into the visit, he says, "You know, this is great, you're great, but money is tight right now, can we please hurry and finish our visit early so that I can just pay for 30 minutes instead of 60 minutes?" Umm, at first, I thought this was a joke, but I quickly figured out. that the dude was serious! So I quickly responded, yeah, NO, you are like 15 minutes away from the agreed time that you paid for, so, no, things do not work that way! I politely explained to him, "one, I do not do 30 minute visits, which is well known, just not on my thing, and two, you have been here for 45 minutes, and three, I put an hour of time aside for you and I to visit and I turned down other calls to visit with you, so, I am offering you the hour that you have paid for and if you want to stay, awesome, but if you want to hurry, finish our visit early and leave, that is your choice, but you still have to pay for the hour that you booked with me!" Ladies what would you have done in this situation? I mean, really, what he did is like going to a restaurant and eating half of what was ordered and then asking to pay for the portion that was consumed but not the portion that was ordered and received...if that makes any sense.

I learned a while back, for the most part, I will put the money in a another room because of stuff like that. If you schedule an hour and I tell other people I will not be available right away, I expect to be compensated for what you scheduled. I have let it slide because I dont wanna get into a big argument about it, but I do not give references for someone who has done that. You know how many people would want their money because they were done earlier than they thought they could be finished and they themselves suggest they cant go again? I would be super poor for sure if that was the way it worked. So like I said, put the money else where so they don't feel entitled to it because it is right there.

What if someone showed up, and you were not what they were expecting? Speaking generally, if someone looked nothing like their pics (diff. hair, diff. weight/height than indicated, etc.) and they bailed at that point, what then? I always do my research to avoid such situations, or back in my AMP days, I would make sure I knew who the lady was before going forward, but it is bound to have happened at least once. Not to say guys are shallow and just concerned about looks; well okay that's exactly what I'm saying! LOL

But seriously. Does anyone think that it goes both ways? Should someone be allowed to bail out if they are truly uncomfortable or unhappy with the lady before the session starts? Also, ask yourself how you would handle a client who showed up who made you very uneasy/unhappy before anything went down. If you called it off, should the lady be entitled to any portion of the fee, or do you both part ways, refund any money paid, and move on to the next one?

But to directly answer your question, bailing mid-session/hump is bullshit IMHO. At that point he's committed! LOL

The simple answer is Hell No. At that point it was both stupid and rude of him to ask.

To address Marcus's question I do think that an option for someone that has never met you to bail at the very beggining should be on the table. Yes there are pictures for customers to review but they are not always current and designed to show a provider in her best light. Faces are also usually not shown. Because of that the providers should accept that as a potential in any new appointment.

I had a person at a restaurant take my half eaten meal while I went for a refill and throw it away. Let me tell you, you handled it alot better than I would have handled my affair (I was so angry, I didn't say a thing and walked past her and threw my drink it the garbage as I left all the while she was thinking she could settle everything by asking if I wanted the meal comp'd.... too late, appetite ruined and pissed.)

There is no excuse to renenge on something both partys agreed to. Now if some emergency popped up (and you agreed that it was) that he had to leave, it would be your option to be nice and do that. Otherwise, WAY out of line!

What if someone showed up, and you were not what they were expecting? Speaking generally, if someone looked nothing like their pics (diff. hair, diff. weight/height than indicated, etc.) and they bailed at that point, what then? I always do my research to avoid such situations, or back in my AMP days, I would make sure I knew who the lady was before going forward, but it is bound to have happened at least once. Not to say guys are shallow and just concerned about looks; well okay that's exactly what I'm saying! LOL

But seriously. Does anyone think that it goes both ways? Should someone be allowed to bail out if they are truly uncomfortable or unhappy with the lady before the session starts?[/B] [B]Also, ask yourself how you would handle a client who showed up who made you very uneasy/unhappy before anything went down. If you called it off, should the lady be entitled to any portion of the fee, or do you both part ways, refund any money paid, and move on to the next one?

But to directly answer your question, bailing mid-session/hump is bullshit IMHO. At that point he's committed! LOL Originally Posted by Marcus78

Okay, I think that if a gentleman shows up and does not think that the girl fit the photos, or the girl is just not what they expect, and nothing has gone down, and the gentleman wants to bail, IMHO, well, he has the right to do that without paying for the time, just as we as providers, have the right to bail on a situation that we do not feel happy or comfortable with and in such a case, we, I know I, in that situation, would not as for time paid. I think in the situations that you described above, bound to happen, and the two parties should just part ways..not worth arguing about..would be a waste of time and disrespectful to argue someone's opinion or feelings...so yes in the above situation...move on to the next one!

The simple answer is Hell No. At that point it was both stupid and rude of him to ask.

To address Marcus's question I do think that an option for someone that has never met you to bail at the very beggining should be on the table. Yes there are pictures for customers to review but they are not always current and designed to show a provider in her best light. Faces are also usually not shown. Because of that the providers should accept that as a potential in any new appointment. Originally Posted by Laz

So true..I am one that blurs my photos no face shots because of my child custody issues, but once a gentleman comes to visit for the first time, If he does not like, it is acceptable for him to leave!

Yes, if it's not her in the pics, then you should have the right to go. That makes sense

Gents are always welcome to leave me at first sight. Although it has never happend, I would never make a man pay me if he was unhappy or even uncomfortable in the first 5 minutes.

Gents are not welcome to be indian givers once a good portion of my time has been used and once they have seen me fully undressed. Period. If there was something i clearly did wrong or if I ended it early for various reasons then it is up to me to give a certain amount back. I usually would. But again, luckily I have never had a gent want to do this. Im sorry this happend to you babe. Thank you for sharing. I will message you for his name. Also did you write about this in our girls only area? It would be even more helpful...thanks again baby.

... or if I ended it early for various reasons then it is up to me to give a certain amount back ... Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

I can personally vouch for Ezra's veracity. I saw her about two years back and she started feeling under-the-weather halfway into playtime. She ended the session, gracefully of course, then handed me back more than half of the donation. I tried to persuade her to keep the donation, but she would only take what was appropriate for the elapsed time. A class act ... even all the way back then, my dear!

Oh and ...

Gents are always welcome to leave me at first sight. Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

Those would be some dumb-fuck gents ...

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thank you babe for those kind words and for the back up.

Sounds like a case of "when the contract is signed then we can begin negotiations". Certain cultures are like this. Always a surprise and invariably a pain in the ass!

...but about 45 minutes into the visit, he says, "You know, this is great, you're great, but money is tight right now, can we please hurry and finish our visit early so that I can just pay for 30 minutes instead of 60 minutes?" Originally Posted by Khloe Jay

ARE YOU F***ING SH***ING ME? I'D HAVE BITCH-SLAPPED HIM! WHO IS THIS JERK-OFF?

If money was so damn tight, he should have said something before he showed up!!!

Ok, I'll bite. Sine I assume he took no for an answer and since you have not indicated that it got worse. What was the ACTUAL HARM in him asking?

Yes it was rude, and yes it is not very professional, but did it harm anyone?

Sounds like filet mignon taste on What-a- burger budget. GV said it all, what a sh..head. No doubt you let the ladies know who he is.