Verification

New to the hobby. What should I expect when contacting a lady? I know the reputable ones typically ask for verification but what all does that consist of?

Some ask for Government issued ID, some ask for social media links, some ask for references, some ask for Deposits $$, some just ask your age & race & some don't ask for anything at all.
Up to you to decide on what you're comfortable with.

1. See some newbie friendly providers. Write reviews and get references. Having references makes it easier for fuuture appointments.
2. Get Preferred411. Get verified on there and once you have seen a P412 provider, you can get a P411 OK from her and this helps you with faster screening and easier appointment scheduling.

007 has been added to the Fabolous club #11, a gentleman always willing to help others and explains everything. Y'all can't say the mods don't help. I have never seen 007 powertrip with
his position & always gives fair warnings.The patience of a Saint......

Thank you all for your advice on this. I have put some serious consideration into p411 as it looks like it makes life alot easier/safer with the hobby

Thank you all for your advice on this. I have put some serious consideration into p411 as it looks like it makes life alot easier/safer with the hobby Originally Posted by SirSid

As a long-time provider, I would second this. It does make life easier in the hobby. That being said, don't expect to not have to screen at all with it. I know that I personally still always message the most recent two okays and wait to hear back from them before I confirm.

That being said, there are tons of ladies who will see you as a newbie either there or here with different options for screening or none at all, as others have mentioned. A lot of new gents find themselves in the position of having to meet with two ladies in the beginning who might not be their first choices, but then you have good, solid references to move forwards with to start seeing the ones you really want to.

You might also want to double-check with ladies before you see them that will be references for you. Some ladies never will/just never respond when being contacted (by providers) so you want to make sure not to end up in that situation.

Staying at least somewhat active here with respectful posts and regular reviews can also help.

(As an aside, I am reference friendly, very prompt in my responses, and have great TCB. )

Good luck to you and happy hobbying.

This should be a sticky for every new guy!!!

How do you know that "Sid" isn't LE.... ?

A'Man

^^A'Man, didn't see that one coming lol..

from my experience, most newbie friendly providers will dig into RW info with reverse phone search, etc. most will bail if everything doesn't match up/check out.

i've only seen 1 obvious le from vice here, and he gave off weird af vibes.