Provider response time?

What is the appropriate wait time before moving on to another provider?

Depends on the provider, your history with them, how recently they've posted, and how exactly you reached out.


Don't expect anyone to jump up if you sent a 1 or 2 word text, especially if you two have no history.

Depends on the provider, your history with them, how recently they've posted, and how exactly you reached out.


Don't expect anyone to jump up if you sent a 1 or 2 word text, especially if you two have no history. Originally Posted by corona

Sorry more specifically a p411 request and not a text

Sorry more specifically a p411 request and not a text Originally Posted by Juandoe51

Normally, I'd say within a day-- but here lately, P411 has NOT been sending us notifications that we have new messages.

Normally, I'd say within a day-- but here lately, P411 has NOT been sending us notifications that we have new messages. Originally Posted by TalliaThomas

Agreed I use to get emails notifications from them when someone sent me a pm and recently that has not been my experience lately. I will just happen to log in and see I have a message
I try to respond to pm or text as quickly as I can depending on what I have going on right in front of me.

Agreed I use to get emails notifications from them when someone sent me a pm and recently that has not been my experience lately. I will just happen to log in and see I have a message
I try to respond to pm or text as quickly as I can depending on what I have going on right in front of me. Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

So if they have logged in and u don’t get a response u should move on. I try to give 2-3 day notice of when I want to meet, but I’ve had a couple of times where they respond the day of. I’ve had one that responded after the day and time asking if I was still available. Luckily that day I was still available.

there is no general appropriate time.
wait as long as you want, followup as much as you want.


now if the question were "about how long do you wait for a response from a provider on <<insertPlatfowmNameHere>>",
that'd be different.

Has anyone sent P411 a email telling them you are not getting email notices?

It really depends on the individual, because everyone has a life. There’s no general rule on replying back to an email, text, or phone call.

So if they have logged in and u don’t get a response u should move on. I try to give 2-3 day notice of when I want to meet, but I’ve had a couple of times where they respond the day of. I’ve had one that responded after the day and time asking if I was still available. Luckily that day I was still available. Originally Posted by Juandoe51

You can always send a follow up message for maybe they missed it some how?? This has happened to me once unfortunately.

I have sent a text / dm advising the provider that a P411 request has been sent, right after sending it.

Sorry more specifically a p411 request and not a text Originally Posted by Juandoe51

to the guys----if the girl on P411 you want to meet has an email address or phone number listed on her P411 profile, then email or phone her DIRECTLY

P411 can take DAYS to notify a girl that a guy wants to meet her

What is the appropriate wait time before moving on to another provider? Originally Posted by Juandoe51

Providers operate on an unknown measurement of time. Go with your gut on this.

Depends on the provider, your history with them, how recently they've posted, and how exactly you reached out.


Don't expect anyone to jump up if you sent a 1 or 2 word text, especially if you two have no history. Originally Posted by corona

Best answer award

Some ladies are better with tcb than others. If you've reached out to a lady and don't have a response in a day or so, maybe follow up, or just move on.