I'm new to this and I was just wondering what websites y'all tend to use when looking for a provider. I've seen some sketchy ones and just want to see what everyone else is doing
I can't advise on sites because I'm not local but...
Regardless of what site you try-- I highly suggest that when you find a lady you are interested in seeing-- Google her number-- see if she's reviewed or if there are alerts on her. If she's posting by name-- google her name and "escort" and see what pops up. Or-- if you find someone on a site like this, look at her review history. All these things will help keep you safe no matter where you "shop"
Yeah, there was this one site with "verified" girls and I texted them but each one asked for a deposit. They got extremely angry that I would not send a deposit.
Disregard whenever a provider asks for a deposit. Only one party takes the risk and that's yourself. Some of us have been in the game for awhile and got scammed along the way so we know the tricks of the trade. Some providers are legit and will still ask for a deposit. I highly highly recommend you disregard placing any deposit even if it's just 5 bucks. If cash on arrival isn't enough then just walk away from it.