De-anon requests

GuyEatingRice's Avatar
Ladies, what is the point of these silly requests: "call me first" "FaceTime me" etc. It doesn't guarantee your safety at all and all it does is de-anonymise both of you. The dude could still be a psycho nut job even if he speaks nicely on the phone. He could still be Leo even if he goes through these hoops. It's literally completely pointless.

Also men, do not jump through these silly hoops that can screw you over in so many different ways. Let them find another job. There are more than enough that don't require this nonsense
Bald Bryan's Avatar
He could still be Leo Originally Posted by GuyEatingRice

My favorite Ex was a Leo. However, Jesus Was A Capricorn and I'm an Aries.
GuyEatingRice's Avatar
Men should not know anything about astrology
corona's Avatar
it's amazing when they self alert, isn't it ladies?
GuyEatingRice's Avatar
Self alert? Also, if you want to put yourself in a position to be screwed over then you do you. Intelligent people will do the opposite
~Ze~'s Avatar
  • ~Ze~
  • 05-07-2025, 09:29 AM
it's amazing when they self alert, isn't it ladies? Originally Posted by corona
Yeah, screams in a few different languages what type of person they are. Definitely doesn't sound like a man who loves and enjoys women.. just uses them as a product.
GuyEatingRice's Avatar
No, it screams common sense
~Ze~'s Avatar
  • ~Ze~
  • 05-07-2025, 09:35 AM
It screams obsession with a thing that doesn't effect or concern you. Let others do what they want and are ok with. Adults and all... why get yourself so upset over it?
corona's Avatar
cool cool. Please, continue to astound us all with your extensive hobby knowledge and tips!! I'm sure many will learn a lot!
GuyEatingRice's Avatar
No one can even refute my original post. These hoops literally benefit nobody. Corona not sure why you are rushing to defend something that doesn't benefit you and is completely pointless
corona's Avatar
I'm not defending anything, except to question your expertise on such matters.


You have 62 posts. no reviews. You have your opinions, others have theirs. You don't like the practice - great! Don't try to see anyone who requires that verification method (assuming you even see providers at all). Like I said above, self alerts are the best alerts.
~Ze~'s Avatar
  • ~Ze~
  • 05-07-2025, 09:53 AM
Sounds like he got rejected by someone for not doing this. She probably dodged a bullet because he doesn't seem like someone with a calm and fun personality. Chemistry and connection are a thing too in this little realm.
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
I have no Face time for screening and still some fool will try it..

If you don't like what you hear Move ON!!

I don't jump through these silly hoops either!!!!
GuyEatingRice's Avatar
Glad to see someone sees my point
corona's Avatar
Sounds like he got rejected by someone for not doing this. She probably dodged a bullet because he doesn't seem like someone with a calm and fun personality. Chemistry and connection are a thing too in this little realm. Originally Posted by ~Ze~
its beyond that to me. his posts and actions scream predator