WHAT IS WITH THESE GUYS?.......

Why do some guys email or text for months, then finally schedule an appt and don't show up!!!! !@#@$?? I'm gonna start charging for time spent texting and emailing stupid bullshit conversations!
Chuck12's Avatar
I'm gonna start charging for time spent texting and emailing stupid bullshit conversations! Originally Posted by Lola Lei
I'm not sure how you are going to achieve that, but ok.

You should place the information in the Powder Room so that other providers know who the NC/NS guy is. If you don't have access, then place his info in the CO-ED, you know Handle or email that he contacted you from for other ladies to know not to mess with them.

If someone is emailing and/or texting repeteadly and not setting up an appointment, tell them to contact you when ever they are ready to set up an appointment.
FootLong's Avatar
The answer to 'why', I think, is that some guys just want to talk with a sexy chick (usually by voice, but email/text, whatever), and as long as they can do that for free, they will. As chuck suggests, tell them contact you when they are ready to set up an appointment (if you forgive them the NCNS), and otherwise ignore.
HarleyMan1951's Avatar
Sorry someone did that to you! Happens to the guys also. Guy PM,s, told yes will meet with you. Drive to this location and send text when you get there. Guy gets to loc and sends text, no reply. He stays there for 30 to 60 minutes sending texts/calls no reply. Don't even get a Sorry, something came up, let's meet on -----' or Your last text gave me bad vibes.
ammonite's Avatar
That's their loss if they don't see you, cuz you're hot.
ugh this is horrible....these specific guys are such clowns to me. Although, if youre still having contact w a gent for a few months and they still have not booked, then its time for you to buckle down and put away your nice cards and pull out your wise cards. Now if the convos are strictly about booking and seriously just trying to get on the same schedue for weeks (which has happend to me plenty) then keep at it. Usually when we do allign and our date is eventually booked, it almost always is worth it. (seeing how they made just as much effort as you did to get to play-because youre worth it and they know it)

Im sorry you had to deal w a jerk like that.... chin up. xoxxo
sanantonioman37's Avatar
Unfortunately it happens, sorry you had to experience that.
Mossman's Avatar
Charge for time texting and convo...novel idea. Sign me up..NOT! What about the guys that were just thinking about contacting you...gonna let them get that FREE!
commplt's Avatar
After seeing you this week I can say, they really missed out!!!!
KlassyKelliAnn's Avatar
Why do some guys email or text for months, then finally schedule an appt and don't show up!!!! !@#@$?? I'm gonna start charging for time spent texting and emailing stupid bullshit conversations! Originally Posted by Lola Lei
Amen!


KKA
Howdy Ms Kelli
MOCHAakaMOCHA's Avatar
You gave him all the FREE attention he wanted and needed and then when he realized it was time to PAY he flaked.
F***ed up!! However though, I limit the amount of texting that I engage in with some of these guys.