Trans Man gets in trouble for using Female Restroom

HDGristle's Avatar
Unfortunate that this was that trans man's experience. What do you think should have been done?

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2025/05/...for-it-anyway/
bambino's Avatar
Invite him to one of your Drag Queen shows you’re promoting on ECCIE. He’ll be treated better.
HDGristle's Avatar
Glad you recognize his preferred pronoun despite him being born a biological woman. That's solid progress my dude.
bambino's Avatar
Glad you recognize his preferred pronoun despite him being born a biological woman. That's solid progress my dude. Originally Posted by HDGristle
Provide a link that states he was born a female. I can’t find one. But you identify with pronouns. Your profile says so. I don’t.
lustylad's Avatar
If "he" identifies as a man, why didn't "he" use the mens room?

Alternatively, if she is a biological woman, why did she ask permission to use the restroom that corresponds to her biological sex?

Nice beard, though. Maybe she/he can join the circus.
HDGristle's Avatar
When Strobel entered the men’s room, he found that it only had three urinals with no dividers between them and no lock on the door, making it unable for him to use. So, after allegedly getting a female employee’s permission to use the women’s restroom, Strobel entered the facilities — no women were present, he told the trans news websiteErin in the Morning.

“In other words, Strobel was using the bathroom that many conservative lawmakers and anti-trans pundits want to force him to use — and he got arrested anyway, seemingly because of the panic surrounding gendered bathrooms,” S. Baum wrote at the aforementioned website.
There you go, Lusty. Since you didn't read the article
Devo's Avatar
  • Devo
  • 05-31-2025, 06:25 PM
Just piss and shit on the street like the homeless do downtown, no problem.

Nobody cares about the homeless anyway, regardless of their junk.
HDGristle's Avatar
Which restroom should Luca have used in the bar, though?

Trans Man = FTM transition

DL identified as Female

Didn't have the equipment to use the urinal without turning around and popping an awkward squat and the door didn't lock.

Why aren't restrooms unisex?

Are you guys cool with someone you consider a female being peeped on and accosted by a man in a ladies room?
bambino's Avatar
Which restroom should Luca have used in the bar, though?

Trans Man = FTM transition

DL identified as Female

Didn't have the equipment to use the urinal without turning around and popping an awkward squat and the door didn't lock.

Why aren't restrooms unisex?

Are you guys cool with someone you consider a female being peeped on and accosted by a man in a ladies room? Originally Posted by HDGristle
You still haven’t produced a link that this clown was born a female. Why did you post this thread Mr Gristle. Are you a gay pronoun! Me thinks you are. Welcome to your coming out party!!!: roflmao:
lustylad's Avatar
Which restroom should Luca have used in the bar, though?

The one corresponding to her biological sex, obviously.


Trans Man = FTM transition

Is Luca pre-op or post-op?


DL identified as Female

Luca's initials are LS, not DL.


Didn't have the equipment to use the urinal without turning around and popping an awkward squat and the door didn't lock.

And you know this... how?


Why aren't restrooms unisex?

Because God created homo sapiens with 2 genders. Why do you want to invade everyone's private spaces with your unisex nonsense?


Are you guys cool with someone you consider a female being peeped on and accosted by a man in a ladies room? Originally Posted by HDGristle
The bar owner didn't know what sex she/he was. And frankly, after watching the TikTok video I don't know either.

Perspective is everything. You call this freak's experience "unfortunate" and deem it worthy of a thread. How would you characterize the experiences of women who are raped and/or assaulted by trans "women" in public women's restrooms? More unfortunate? Or totally avoidable, if only the people in charge would exercise common sense.
HDGristle's Avatar
Any rape is inappropriate, repugnant and reprehensible. But that's for another thread. As is labeling Luca a freak. Different volumes, similar bad energy.

DL is Drivers License, Lusty.
Devo's Avatar
  • Devo
  • 05-31-2025, 10:09 PM
Rape is rape.

M on F, M on M, F on F, doesn't matter.
HDGristle's Avatar
We agree. But, c'mon my dudes, which restroom should he have used in this scenario?

Forced choice. The one based on his preferred gender identity that doesn't match up with his equipment or the one that that matched the sex listed on his official government ID?

Hold it or go outside are copouts.

And why didn't the men's room have a functioning stall? I figured someone would have asked that. It's kind of a glaring open mystery.
lustylad's Avatar
We agree. But, c'mon my dudes, which restroom should he have used in this scenario? Originally Posted by HDGristle
Already asked and answered.

But since you won't drop it, I'll change my answer to IDGAF.

so what is going to happen next? Everywhere we go will have a men's, women's, and other/they/them restroom?