Am I communicating incorrectly

Folks, please let me know if I'm doing something wrong or if this is the case for most. In the past few days, around 10 providers just straight up didn't answer (mostly reviewed providers) or ghosted me after a bit of discussion. I know about being discreet so I only ask for availability and rates - no words about any service even (since I know what they do from the sites). Some answer my initial greeting and then gone. I understand they might be busy, so I reach out a day before (unless there are other instructions on their sites) - and I haven't successfully scheduled anything.


I don't know, I'm frustrated and it feels like I'm blacklisted and maybe it's me - so I'd like to know - where can I do better or is it like this for most?

Interesting. Because you answered all of the important questions in your post. It sounds like you are doing everything right. Why would you think you are somehow blacklisted? Other than that this does not make sense to you, I mean. I don't think there really are very many blacklists. Most girls don't know a lot of other girls in the hobby and they don't really have many forums or sites like this that they participate in regularly. I don't even know if there are any "private" female areas left on this board. When I did know of such things, there were very few women who participated in them.

I'm tempted to say that the answer to your questions is a very simple one: this hobby is deteriorating even further on a regular basis. There are very few reliable girls. Less and less all the time. Scams abound. Half the girls on sites like Tryst now are really only there to try to get you to give them money on OnlyFans.

I generally have good luck seeing girls that I pick out. But I am usually VERY picky, in that I only try to see girls that seem to have a very reliable track record. Maybe you need to be even more careful who you pick. But this sucks fer sure.

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Gotcha, that's some relief that my comms aren't too bad. I don't really believe I'm in some sort of blacklist, it's just frustrating I guess. Forgot to mention one (seems to be known and reviewed as well) where comms were good until she was on her way. Then that she would be late 10 mins to get gas and then ghosted. I just don't know what happened.

Do you have provider references that you offer the girls you contact?