Just Wondering

This is a 2 question:
#1. Do u ever show a dancer the review u did on her in VIP? How did she react?
#2. Have ever heard of a dancer losing her job because of VIP activities?
Just curious, thanks for the input.

1. No
2 Yes

I do not do reviews of dancers, mainly because they do not advertise their services like providers do and I am sure they want to remain discreet about what they do extra. If a guy did show a dancer his review of her, I think he will regret that decision.

Dancers who do blowjobs and full service usually have other dancers who turn them in. Then they get watched and caught by management staff if they are turning tricks in the club.

I can’t think of any good that would come out of showing a review. It comes off as someone trying to flex. Basically saying ‘look, I can make or break you so you better be nice’. And yes I’ve seen girls get let go.

1. I don't really do dancer reviews (though if this OTC works out I might) but even if I did there's ZERO way I would show them or tell them about it ever.
2. Fuck yes I've seen girls get fired for it. Extras can endanger the clubs liquor license many places and if you think about how much any of these places that serve make in let's Just say a two week suspension, that's an astronomical amount of money/profit. More than any single or group of dancers can bring in during that same time period for a club. Now a lot of places it's tolerated and if somebody is not making it a problem then it's not a big deal, but we have seen with amps and massage places how local government likes to flex every now and then.

No point in sharing with them! They know what they do! I had one tell me all about this site and the other! My reaction was” wow that is crazy! What will they come up with next! Review of dancers ? I will have to look into that! It was a very funny conversation!

1. No. There are reasons names of dancers are withheld from reviews mentioning extras. One of those reasons is that the answer to Question 2 is Yes.

1. No. There are reasons names of dancers are withheld from reviews mentioning extras. One of those reasons is that the answer to Question 2 is Yes. Originally Posted by rcusa

Anyone can figure out the dancer name, with the first initial and * for the rest of the letters in her dancer name along with a physical description.

At one club I go to, save for the ones that go up to every dude asking if they want a dance, I have heard that the other dancers will not talk to, much less do dances for guys they do not know, even if the guy asked for them through a waitress or manager.

At one club I go to, save for the ones that go up to every dude asking if they want a dance, I have heard that the other dancers will not talk to, much less do dances for guys they do not know, even if the guy asked for them through a waitress or manager. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

That would seem to make it difficult to get business. If you can't talk to anyone you don't already know, you won't get to know anyone, and the circle-of-solitude will persist. There has to be a first time to speak, for everyone who has known anyone.

Anyone can figure out the dancer name, with the first initial and * for the rest of the letters in her dancer name along with a physical description.

At one club I go to, save for the ones that go up to every dude asking if they want a dance, I have heard that the other dancers will not talk to, much less do dances for guys they do not know, even if the guy asked for them through a waitress or manager. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

Sometimes when I am at a strip club and it's slow or there are no girls I am interested in, I sit there and look at Eccie.


I had dancers ask me what I am looking at and I show them, saying it's a hook up site.


Some walk away, some said they can do better, honey.


I tell them you can do better than $400 per hour with no VIP room and bottle purchase required and provide an unlimited open menu?

Again, some walk away quietly and some gets pissy and walk away.

That would seem to make it difficult to get business. If you can't talk to anyone you don't already know, you won't get to know anyone, and the circle-of-solitude will persist. There has to be a first time to speak, for everyone who has known anyone. Originally Posted by rcusa

Not really.

The dancers I see at the various clubs I go to are always busy. It is called maintaining regulars. They do so by varying up their experiences depending upon what the client is seeking (within her personal boundaries of course) which as a regular, you would know what lines you can and cannot cross.

The most important factor for me when I want to spend my money on a dancer or even a provider is the illusion that while I am with herm she makes me feel like I am her world, not just a revolving door john or assembly line of customers she may have that day who get dances. Some guys do not mind mentally checked out girls who go through the motions, wrap their arms around the neck of her customer and text message on her cell phone while dancing, but I do not.

One thing to remember, these dancers are not placing ads on a whore board so I do not feel they want the exposure of what they do being blasted on one (aka a review). These girls are the very definition of YMMV. So, unless you come across the dancers who do the same for every dude that she does dances for, reviewing them and another guy seeking her out hoping to get the same treatment and service will be disappointed.

Depending on the club, the tolerance will vary as management feels the girls need to make their money, but the fact is, the upper management discourages extras because if the dancer gets caught with a vice officer, not only does she get arrested and fined, but the club may get their liquor license suspended as well as pay a fine for looking the other way.

That would seem to make it difficult to get business. If you can't talk to anyone you don't already know, you won't get to know anyone, and the circle-of-solitude will persist. There has to be a first time to speak, for everyone who has known anyone. Originally Posted by rcusa

I assume wec means having some random waitress or manager go get a dancer you're interested in. If you send a waitress or manager you're cool with they should tell the dancer some version of "hey go see my good friend wec." Now you're "vouched" for and not some unknown.

I assume wec means having some random waitress or manager go get a dancer you're interested in. If you send a waitress or manager you're cool with they should tell the dancer some version of "hey go see my good friend wec." Now you're "vouched" for and not some unknown. Originally Posted by KFB

Yes, referrals are one thing, but they have to be from trusted sources, the best of which is another dancer. A random guy asking a waitress, house mom or manager to send him a specific dancer, be it he knows her stage name or not, if she does not know him, most will not bite and say she is busy as she does not want to be busted, have a guy expect services because he read a review, ect.

It is all a game. What works for me may not work for others. We all are going for different reason, interest and expectations. Part of the game for me is to go into the club with no expectations and see the talent and see how it goes. Sometimes I am looking for a nice conversation with a beautiful women. ( i must say that is getting harder to fine these days) other times Jr wants the attention more than the intellectual mind. Just remember in the end they want $$ (99% that is. I have experience with the 1 % but very rare) more than anything enjoy the moment and then leave with no expectations or strings attached and you will enjoy your time more. Do not over think it or over plan it.