Question to the seasoned folks

Long time lurker, first time poster - How do some of you handle bbbj or any bare activity whatsoever? Even the slightest kiss. I've been to many AMPs and at the first attempt of a kiss I turn away and say no, ty. 😂 I once had a provider just go straight into a BBBJ and I thought the worst.. lol. Anywho - my question remains.. Am I missing something? You seasoned vets who go bare for anything know that I don't. Are all of them regularly tested and removed as needed? Are you guys older and simply in a 'YOLO' mindset? I'm just genuinely curious given all the dining, bb, I read here..

Btw, thanks to all who post consistently and make this a culture lol.

Safe sex is boring sex.