text v. pm, which do prefer and why?
- Thark
- 07-25-2025, 09:54 PM
PM when I want to get screened for future (currently unknown) date. That way I am not blowing up her phone unnecessarily if she has other clients to attend to. Some of your phones are constantly blowing up I bet.
Text when I want to see her and get a date.
- Thark
- 07-25-2025, 09:54 PM
PM when I want to get screened for future (currently unknown) date. That way I am not blowing up her phone unnecessarily if she has other clients to attend to. Some of your phones are constantly blowing up I bet.
Text when I want to see her and get a date.
- txch
- 07-26-2025, 04:56 AM
PMs in old-school forum sites (like Eccie and OH2) are cumbersome to manage. Texting is a lot more convenient.
I PM first to help the lady establish I am who I say I am, but unless we are looking at scheduling that day I quickly move to text. The hobby boards are unreliable so I want to get the phone number in my hobby directory in case an outage occurs (like it did this past week with oh2).
PM first for screening process...then text.
PM then text for new clients. For existing clients text is best.
I prefer email or pm for initial contact. If you say you're on one of the boards or p4, I'll ask you to send a quick message there so I can confirm, but after screening texting is so much easier.
I prefer PM first to “authenticate” someone either on p4 or the forums. Then move to text. Once we are on text, I prefer text always.
If text numbers change or it’s been a while, I always like to recheck on PM and then back to text.
E-mail or PM, for the most part. Text in the hour or two before the session only.