Important to establish personal connection?

So I'm curious, how important is it to establish a back and forth with a provider/jon?

I have found that the personal connection and text/email conversation I have with a provider and getting to know them ends up only enhancing the experience for me. It also greatly increases the chances of repeat business.

One of my favorite providers that I established a connection with and therefore enjoyed my sessions with her was Christine Kennedy. We had a great time...what a hot woman! We tested back and forth etc and got to know each other a little bit and really went a long way in making a session more comfortable and enjoyable for both parties in my opinion.

Now I have seen ads that read "don't contact me unless you're ready to schedule" "No time wasters" and I get it, to a point. But for me personally I want the session to feel more like friends than just a hi/bye.

I would like to get ya'll thoughts and what you guys prefer or what you don't necessarily like. Thanks!

Paul

Establishing a rapport with a provider is an art form!
Sweet-talking is an art form!
(Sweet-taking can go a long way in establishing a rapport with a provider!)

Good luck with all that... It's a transaction, nothing more. They will play along til they get your greenbacks then..... ghost you til you make the next appointment.

So I'm curious, how important is it to establish a back and forth with a provider/jon?

I have found that the personal connection and text/email conversation I have with a provider and getting to know them ends up only enhancing the experience for me. It also greatly increases the chances of repeat business.

One of my favorite providers that I established a connection with and therefore enjoyed my sessions with her was Christine Kennedy. We had a great time...what a hot woman! We tested back and forth etc and got to know each other a little bit and really went a long way in making a session more comfortable and enjoyable for both parties in my opinion.

Now I have seen ads that read "don't contact me unless you're ready to schedule" "No time wasters" and I get it, to a point. But for me personally I want the session to feel more like friends than just a hi/bye.

I would like to get ya'll thoughts and what you guys prefer or what you don't necessarily like. Thanks!

Paul Originally Posted by pqaz

Establishing "a connection" is great and worthwhile, BUT. I'd add most ladies want to "get to know you" before that really happens. They're not going to open up to you on anything meaningful before you've met, not should they. I mean think about it. WHY would a lady share anything with someone they've never met? How does she know your not just wasting her time,, and your even going to show up? Now once you've had an encounter, or several you can both decide just how much you want to share. I've had some VERY meaningful connections with wonderful ladies in the hobby, but they have all developed over time, and mutual willingness to know each other deeper. Its not for everyone, and certainly not for someone you don't know at all from both sides.

Good luck with all that... It's a transaction, nothing more. They will play along til they get your greenbacks then..... ghost you til you make the next appointment. Originally Posted by ben dover

Initially for most, as it should be. Where you go from there depends on how each party responds to the connection or lack of one.

I've yet to meet a woman who wasn't receptive to sweet-talk!
And, I've yet to meet a woman who was receptive to constructive criticism.

It's a business transaction. You plop down $$$ for requested service.