What happened to the hobby?

I've been away from the hobby for awhile but I dont remember it ever being like this. What's up with all the ncns,time wasters,and people playing games and I'm talking about both sides of the hobby not just the guys. I wish my regulars from back in the day were still around at least they were dependable. I thought we were all grown and stopped playing games as we got older but I guess some of us never grow up. Just some things on my mind this morning lol....

Besides the fewer websites because of government control along with a huge amount of scam accounts, I miss the old days where it was quality over quantity. I think it was easier in smaller cities where one could find a lady and have true intimacy. Now it seems so many women become their own turnstile and demand high dollar for unsatisfactory service. I agree there are a lot of scum bags as potential customers but I am giving up on finding one that is worth my money anymore.

There are plenty of wonderful providers out there; just have to do a lot more research to find them. Agreed that there is so much garbage on the market today along with TGTBT offers.

It is the oldest profession in the world and was around well before this site and will be long after the site comes down for one reason or another. That part will never change and there are some great people who will forever make it that way, passing the torch to others who will keep it going, no matter the consequences of getting caught by LE or a physical beatdown or worse by a pimp.

The internet has given trolls and game players the opportunity to do their thing and the boards are the platforms to accomplish them much better. That is why you see spats between members, agendas by trolls and game players playing games as the majority of the posts on the sites. I would give you my experiences with some of the keyboard warriors and power plays, but I would get dinged by the mods as a martyr. Very rarely do you see a good discussion thread topic on the boards that members can have a stimulating conversations as they usually have trolls attacking and insulting other members because they chose to post their opinion on topic of the thread.

Best bet is to get your regulars, how ever long it takes to accomplish the volume you seek (it took me well into the triple digits of OKs on p411 before I found mine). And like most people, especially providers, be a lurker on the sites for the most part, averaging about a post or two a day and do not let the negative trolls steal your thunder, no matter how hard they try. I personally have some very dedicated ones that live on the boards and try with me as they have been for years and years and will be for years in the future.

Dont give up sweetheart you havent tried us all some of us still believe in the old ways ��

Like anyone, I am always interested in adding to my circle. However, with the GPS donation rates of today, the customer service fading and the drama associated with providers of today, it is difficult to do that as the value for my dollar has diminished greatly.

There are plenty of wonderful providers out there; just have to do a lot more research to find them. Agreed that there is so much garbage on the market today along with TGTBT offers. Originally Posted by Wild Bill 1964

Agreed
Xoxo,
Jessica

I’ve seen a decline of quality over the past years. I’m looking for mature women that like to have playtime, but now I’m hearing, “I don’t like L2, because it hurts my jaw” and “can you hurry up and climax I don’t have all day”.

It has changed. I've had the same regular for a while. I keep trying to find a new regular that isn't so far away, but just can't. I loathe scheduling with new providers, one deposit scam, one who NCNS'd (fell aspleep), then cancelled the morning of the next time. I end up not trying or drive to my regular. Often the TCB nightmare ends up with me seeing no one. I used to think it was just the younger ones, which I now avoid, but it isn't just them. Sorry for the rant.

Over time, the steadiness of a provider increasing her rates and decreasing the quality of her service has made the hobby very watered down. Some hobbyists have hung up their boots on the hobby due to that and guys that want to stick around who do not have regulars they see give in to the madness that is the hobby of today.

The sad part is, you have providers not only telling others they are charging too little donations (I had a few ladies tell me that), but also when you use the boards for their intended purpose of sharing intel on your experiences, you get belittled for having a great time with a provider who others may not of for one reason or another and you get insulted by WKs and other providers for sharing that you had a less than average session. So you tend to not report anything.

The days of holding a provider to the fire of the ad they placed are gone. They can bait your business in the door and get shielded and protected when they underwhelm, NCNS. ect.

And that, countrygirl0401, is why you have good hobbyist who have built a wall while you have other guys with not so good intentions setting appointments, NCNSing and wasting your time because that is their fun.

Young crowd is doing flight-by-night operations....make quick bucks and move to IG/TK/OF.

Quantity of ladies who did hobby as a lifestyle, rather than livelihood, has dwindled down a lot. There are far and few. Regulation change and inflation doesn't help either.

Well summarized there Wile !

It is the oldest profession in the world and was around well before this site and will be long after the site comes down for one reason or another. That part will never change and there are some great people who will forever make it that way, passing the torch to others who will keep it going, no matter the consequences of getting caught by LE or a physical beatdown or worse by a pimp.

The internet has given trolls and game players the opportunity to do their thing and the boards are the platforms to accomplish them much better. That is why you see spats between members, agendas by trolls and game players playing games as the majority of the posts on the sites. I would give you my experiences with some of the keyboard warriors and power plays, but I would get dinged by the mods as a martyr. Very rarely do you see a good discussion thread topic on the boards that members can have a stimulating conversations as they usually have trolls attacking and insulting other members because they chose to post their opinion on topic of the thread.

Best bet is to get your regulars, how ever long it takes to accomplish the volume you seek (it took me well into the triple digits of OKs on p411 before I found mine). And like most people, especially providers, be a lurker on the sites for the most part, averaging about a post or two a day and do not let the negative trolls steal your thunder, no matter how hard they try. I personally have some very dedicated ones that live on the boards and try with me as they have been for years and years and will be for years in the future. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

Over time, the steadiness of a provider increasing her rates and decreasing the quality of her service has made the hobby very watered down. Some hobbyists have hung up their boots on the hobby due to that and guys that want to stick around who do not have regulars they see give in to the madness that is the hobby of today.

The sad part is, you have providers not only telling others they are charging too little donations (I had a few ladies tell me that), but also when you use the boards for their intended purpose of sharing intel on your experiences, you get belittled for having a great time with a provider who others may not of for one reason or another and you get insulted by WKs and other providers for sharing that you had a less than average session. So you tend to not report anything.

The days of holding a provider to the fire of the ad they placed are gone. They can bait your business in the door and get shielded and protected when they underwhelm, NCNS. ect.

And that, countrygirl0401, is why you have good hobbyist who have built a wall while you have other guys with not so good intentions setting appointments, NCNSing and wasting your time because that is their fun. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

It’s gotten a hell of lot more $$$$!!!

I beg to differ!
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