I guess more providers than there are hobbyists
Originally Posted by countrygirl0401
No, there are more hobbyists than providers which is why the providers who do not have any repeat business are still in the business of providing with their one and done due to their service or lack thereof, because there are so many gullible johns out there who fall for the pretty pictures or thinking a provider will honor the writing in the ad they place.
Not to accuse anyone, don’t think anyone in this thread is/has been an issue but I’ve seen and noticed a larger number of NCNS/scams/time waster posts here. Chicks asking for unrealistic deposits, etc…. To many bops are coming into this and ruining it for many more. I’ve slide back into my long term reliables and not seeing anyone new.
Originally Posted by 643_DP
I have had more than my fair share of providers NCNSing. Many I never heard from again after they confirmed, I get dressed and drove across town, tell her I am there and radio silence sitting in a parking lot for over 30 minutes before I bailed. I texted what happened, still no response. Could be that they are embarrassed or just flat out do not give a shit. Given that other providers and even other guys defend a provider for that, it is clear that wasting a guy's time is okay and why it is still being done regularly per reports. Then there are the ones who twist it around and make it like it was the fault of the hobbyist as to why they NCNSed him.
Nowadays and it has been for me for a long time, after close to 200 OKs on p411 and the NCNS providers, I have found my handful or so or reliable providers as well who I can contact on a whim if I wish or set appointments a few days out and the ones who are travelers always text me when they are in town.